Standing with Israel in a Time of Need

Hatikvah: A Shabbat Service in Solidarity with Israel, October 13, 2023
By Rabbi Mark Glickman

When Caron and I were in Israel last February, we went with a couple dozen of my colleagues to a small cluster of communities near the Gaza border called Sha’ar Hanegev. Our hosts there welcomed us at the local community center, showed us into a meeting room, and, over tea and cakes, we had the chance to meet with this man:

Ofir Libstein

Ofir Libstein, the mayor of Sha’ar Hanegev. Mr. Libstein shared with us something of what life was like for him and his neighbors living in that troubled corner of the world. He spoke about the Palestinians on the other side of the border and acknowledged that, while some people in Gaza certainly wished him harm, he was confident that most of the Palestinians there were just like him – people with husbands, wives, children, and friends, just trying to live their lives as peaceably as they could.

Last Saturday, Hamas terrorists murdered Ofir Libstein in a firefight at Sha’ar Hanegev.

Hayim Katsman

This is a picture of Hayim Katsman, a peace activist whose 2021 dissertation at the University of Washington in the United States was entitled “Religious-Nationalism in Israel/Palestine.” Hayim’s grandfather was Ben Zion Wacholder, a renowned expert in the Dead Sea Scrolls who was a Talmud professor of mine when I was in rabbinical school. Hayim lived at Kibbutz Cholit. He died shielding a neighbor from the terrorists’ bullets. That neighbor later went on to save two children from the attacks, as well, adding to the circle of life saved by the heroic actions of Hayim Katsman that day.

My daughter, Shoshana, loves going to music festivals. She spent a few weeks in Israel earlier this year, but had she been there last Shabbat, she would almost certainly have been at the Supernova music festival, where Hamas murderers killed 263 people.

This touches us all. So many of us have connections like this to the events of the past week.

Saturday, October 7 was the deadliest day in the history of the Jewish people since the Holocaust. These are the pictures of just some of the victims. The terrorists murdered more than 1300 people in Israel last Saturday. But that number – 1300 – hides so much. Because it’s not just that 1300 people were killed, it’s that Ofir Libstein was killed. And Hayim Katsman. And people with names like Nurit Berger. And Hannah Ben Arzi. And the list goes on, and on, and on. They were old, and they were young, they were married and they were single. They had families, they had partners, they had friends. Many were non-Jews, who were living or working in the Jewish state.

“He who destroys a single life,” the Talmud says, “is considered to have destroyed a world.” In Saturday’s violence, 1300 lives came to a sudden end at the hands of terrorist evildoers. We mourn their deaths tonight; we pay tribute to their lives. About 150 others were taken hostage, and we pray for their safe return.

We are here tonight to celebrate Shabbat. And we are here to grieve. And we are here to reflect. And we are here because we need one another. And we are here in search of God’s comfort and guidance. When you kill one Jew, you injure the Jewish heart. And we are here to nurse our wounded heart together. It was Israelis who were attacked on Saturday, but, as Yehudah Amichai’s poem we read earlier notes, the diameter of that bomb extends much farther – even to here in Calgary and beyond. How wonderful it is that you are here, because tonight, I need to be with you. Because your community needs to be with you. Tonight, we need each other.

As your rabbi, I think I’m supposed to comfort you at this juncture, but I’m finding that difficult, because right now, I need comforting, too.

Out of the pain and grief of this moment, I would like to share a couple of thoughts.

First, this is a moment that calls for moral clarity on the part of the Jewish people. Israel was attacked by terrorists. Old people and young people were slaughtered, as we’ve noted – men, women, and children. The killers went to their victims’ homes, to their town centers, and to a music festival, and they filmed their multi-pronged pogrom so they could brag about it to the world as it happened and afterward.

There are those who blame Israeli policy for these attacks, arguing that Israel’s occupation of the West Bank and Gaza and its treatment of Palestinians somehow paved the way for the horrors of last Saturday. This argument is utter hogwash. Yes, there has been longstanding conflict between Israelis and. But when you and I are having a dispute, however nasty my own behavior might be, you don’t come to my home and kill my family. Such a response is never called for, it’s never “understandable,” it’s never a result of previous mistreatment. Accusations that Israeli policy brought this on are simply attempts to blame the victims, and to excuse unconscionable acts of terror. It is a perspective that we should refute at every possible opportunity.

There are those in the media who refer to the perpetrators of this violence as freedom fighters, and as people struggling for peace, and on behalf the rights of their people. That terminology is wrong, of course – the perpetrators were terrorists. People who are fighting for national liberation don’t attack concert-goers. People who want peace in their land don’t murder peace activists. Those who want a better world for their people don’t commit brutal acts of terror.

Let’s be clear. Like many of us, I’m opposed to the occupation. Like many, I dream of a state for the Palestinian people just as we Jews have. And I, too, am horrified at some of the ways Israel has treated those who live in Gaza and the West Bank. But none of this – none of it – caused this week’s carnage. This week’s carnage was a reprehensible act of hate perpetrated by people committed to violence and evil. Full stop.

“Yes, but the occupation,” some people say. “Yes, but the corruption of the Netanyahu government. Yes, but ….”

For the murder of infants, there is no “yes but.”

For the slaughter of innocents, there is no “yes but.”

For taking the elderly and the wounded hostage in a war zone, “yes but” has no place.

And now, Israel is left with no choice but to fight Hamas: to eliminate the threat that they pose, to guarantee the safety of innocent Israelis, and to bring the hostages home. God willing, Israel will be able to minimize the loss of innocent lives on the other side of the border. Sadly, tragically, with Hamas using Palestinian citizens and Israeli hostages as human shields, such deaths may be unavoidable.

As Israel engages in this important but necessary struggle, we need to support Israel however we can. So, when you hear friends and coworkers blaming Israel for these attacks, you need to call out those views. And when you read editorials and social media posts echoing these ideas, write back with rejoinders. And when you see Israel blamed for the slaughter of its own, stand strong beside her. And donate generously to Israel, because Israel and her citizens need our help.

Second, let’s remember that although these attacks targeted mostly Jewish Israelis, Jews are far from the only victims of Hamas’s terror. Hamas has caused great suffering on the part of Palestinians, too. Israel ended its occupation of Gaza in 2005, and soon afterward, Hamas took control of the area. It was a moment of such promise when Israel gave Gazans their autonomy. But Hamas squandered foreign aid in a morass of corruption. Hamas thugs quashed their political opponents, often violently. And now, Hamas terrorists have brought upon Gaza’s citizens the full wrath of the Israel Defense Forces. Hamas now has Jewish blood on its hands, and it has Palestinian blood on its hands, too.

Let us hope and pray that, in the heat of war, Israel is able to remember this as it engages in the crucial task of defending itself against terrorism. There are more than two million people living in that little Gaza strip. There is no electricity, and Israel, who maintains external control of the area, has turned off access to food and water. The only way out might have been through Egypt, but Egypt hasn’t opened the door. There are evildoers there, they live among the innocents, and the combination of the evil and the innocent represents a humanitarian disaster in the making.

Can Israel aim its missiles at the bad guys while sparing the good guys? I don’t think so, but hopefully, Israel can minimize the loss of innocent lives. Is there a way for Israel to do what it needs to do without starving people who didn’t have anything to do with the violence? I don’t know, but it’s an important question to ask.

The line between self-defense and bloodthirstiness gets blurry at times such as these, but it’s an important one to draw. Our tradition allows us to kill those who are trying to kill us, and it vehemently prohibits us from killing others. Let’s pray that Israel and its leaders keep to both of those crucial moral requirements as they do what they need to do.

Third, this is Shabbat B’reishit, when we Jews read the opening verses of the Torah. As I was reading the portion this week, my eyes were drawn to the story of Cain and Abel. Cain, according to the Torah, was history’s first murderer – the first person who rose up against their fellow human being and took their life. In this case, it was the life of Cain’s brother, Abel.

In 1981, Israeli poet Dan Pagis wrote about the aftermath of this murder from the perspective of Cain and Abel’s mother, Eve.

The poem is called “Written in Pencil in the Sealed Railway-Car,” and its title indicates that Dan Pagis is projecting the story of Cain, Abel, and their mother Eve into the 1940s, the time of the Holocaust.

WRITTEN IN PENCIL IN THE SEALED RAILWAY-CAR
By Dan Pagis
here in this carload
i am eve
with abel my son
if you see my other son
cain son of man
tell him that i

I invite you to reflect for a few moments on these words. Eve sits in a railway car with the body of her murdered son. Her other son is Cain Son of Man, Kayin ben Adam, Cain Son of Adam. She searches for him, but he is far, far away. And she wants to say something to him, she wants to share what she is thinking and feeling. But when it comes time to put words to what is in her heart, she falls into silence. She writes a message, but she can’t finish the thought.

There are no words.

O God, we too sit with Abel. Abel is Ofir Libstein. Abel is Hayim Katsman. Abel is Nurit Berger, Hannah Ben Artzi, and all of the others. And Cain, the murderer is so far away…beyond touching for the moment, beyond embrace.

Cain, put down that stone! Enough killing! Enough bloodshed. Enough pain. And, God, please tell him that we…please tell him…please say….

O God, we weep tonight for our loss. We weep for the men and for the women and for the children. And we are so afraid. Bring calm to the land, O God. Please bring calm. Still, the hands of the evildoers, shield the innocent and grant Israel strength in protecting its citizens. And please, from the bottom of our hearts, we pray: bring the hostages home and bring them home safely.

Here, tonight, we sit together in solidarity with Israel, firmly committed to the struggle for all that we know to be good and holy.

Adonai oz l’amo yitein. Adonai y’vareich et amo vashalom. May God grant strength to our people, and may God bless our people with peace.

Shabbat. Shalom.

Be a Person: Judaism, Humanity and the Sacred Demands of our New AI World

Yom Kippur Morning Sermon, September 25, 2023
By Rabbi Mark Glickman

Shalom, dear members of Temple B’nai Tikvah, friends, and guests. On this sacred day of Yom Kippur, we gather here in the heart of Calgary, Alberta, to seek forgiveness, renewal, and spiritual transformation. As we stand together in this sacred space, let us reflect upon the profound significance of this day and the journey of self-discovery it offers us.

Yom Kippur, the Day of Atonement, is a time for deep introspection and reflection. It is a day when we pause to consider our actions, our relationships, and our connection to the Divine. It is a day of both solemnity and hope, a day when we confront our imperfections and strive to become better versions of ourselves.

Here, I’ll pause and ask you what you think of this sermon so far. And, don’t worry, I won’t be hurt if you don’t like it because, until a moment ago, the words of this sermon were words that I didn’t write.  No, this sermon wasn’t a Rabbi Mark Glickman sermon – it was a Chat GPT sermon. Creating it was simple. I just set up an account, and then typed in “Write me a Yom Kippur sermon for Temple B’nai Tikvah in Calgary,” and within about five seconds…

…I had a sermon.

(I assure you that, from now on, the rest of my words will be ones that I wrote myself. I … promise.)

Now, Chat GPT did a passable job of writing this sermon, I suppose – it’s got lots of Yom Kippur sermons at its virtual fingertips, and it knows what they’re supposed to sound like. But, if you responded to it at all the way I did, you’ll agree that it fell kind of flat. For starters, it didn’t really sound like me. In the first sentence, for example, it had me referring to you as “dear members of Temple B’nai Tikvah community.” You are dear to me, of course, but that’s not the way I talk. It also wasn’t very creative or innovative, it was more like a bland regurgitation of sermon formulas from countless boring sermons of years past. The kind that other rabbis give. Not me. I hope.

But still, if you’ve been paying any attention to recent discussions, you’ll know that these new technologies – artificial intelligence, they’re called, AI – are likely to bring huge changes to rabbinic work in the years ahead, especially as it grows stronger.  One of the biggest challenges in being a rabbi is of coming up with something new and interesting to say every week at services, and my colleagues and I put huge amounts of energy into our sermons – especially because some of those Torah portions are rough to get anything good out of. Now, we can write those sermons – at least mediocre ones – in mere seconds by just telling Chat GPT and other similar programs to write them for us, allowing us to use the remaining time for other things.

And of course, it’s not just rabbinic work that will be affected. I asked Chat GPT to suggest an itinerary for a two-week trip to Vancouver Island, and it gave me a pretty good one. It’ll compose poetry for you if you want. It will translate between languages, give you restaurant suggestions, choose birthday gifts for your friends, and write a poem for your beloved in the style of William Wordsworth if you want.

The technology is still new and highly imperfect. When I asked Chat GPT to write a biography of Rabbi Mark Glickman, it got the titles of my books right, but it made me three years younger than I actually am, and it made me a conservative rabbi.

But as the technology improves, many are concerned about what it might do. When it gets stronger, and I want to, say, purchase a certain stock at an affordable price, an AI program could conceivably spread fake news – negative news – about that company, making the price of that stock tank for just long enough for that program to buy the stock for me at a low price. Then, I would just need to wait a little while, let the market correct its value, and sell that stock for me at a profit. I’ve been on TV and radio several times over the years, and, with those recordings of my voice in its toolbox, that same AI could place a call to my mother, and, in my voice say, “Mom, my interfaith work has backfired and I’m now being held hostage in the basement of a United Church – send money to this account, or they’ll make me convert.” In all seriousness, it is possible – and most say likely – that bad actors could get their hands on this technology and do bad things with it.

Of course, our fear of technology gone bad is nothing new. For a long time now, it’s been the stuff of science fiction. You’ve seen Jurassic Park; you’ve seen or read Frankenstein; and many of you have seen 2001: A Space Odyssey: “Open the pod bay doors, Hal.” “I’m sorry, Dave. I’m afraid I can’t do that.” Those movies are all about what happens when the work of our own human hands grows so strong that we can no longer control it.

We Jews have been aware of these dangers for centuries. When humans first developed a newfangled technology called brickmaking, their first big project was to build a tower to the sky – the Tower of Babel – and it had horrible consequences. Centuries later, according to legend, in the Spring of 1580 Rabbi Yehudah Loewe Betzalel of Prague (commonly known as the Maharal of Prague) got a couple of helpers, went out early one morning to the banks of the Moldau River, took some clay, and formed it into a “golem.”

The Golem of Prague was a large, hulking figure. It looked like a person; it walked like a person; it could listen and understand like a person, but it couldn’t talk. The Maharal named him Yosef and affectionately called him Yossele.

Some traditions say that the Maharal animated the Golem by writing one of the names of God on his forehead, or by putting one of those names on a paper that the Golem carried in his mouth. More common, however, is the tradition that the Golem carried with him not the name of God, but the seal of God – the word Emet, which means truth. To turn the Golem off, all they had to do was to erase the first letter of the word emet – an alefand the word would become met, which means dead, and the Golem would stop and become a statue.

At the time, life was difficult for the Jews of Prague. Christian neighbors and authorities often accused them of blood libel – of using the blood of Christian children to make their matzah for Passover – and expulsion, imprisonment, and even death were very real possibilities for them every day. As a result, they needed somebody to protect them: somebody strong, somebody courageous, somebody who could manifest holiness amidst the evil that surrounded them. They needed a golem.

Indeed, the Golem protected them for a time. During the week, he would guard Prague’s Jews from all evil, then, on Friday afternoon, the Maharal would remove God’s name or the aleph in emet from his forehead to give him a little break for Shabbat, and after Shabbat, the Marahal would put the name back on the Golem’s forehead, and the Golem would get back to work. One Friday, however, the Maharal forgot to remove God’s name, and the Golem ran amok, causing all kinds of trouble. The Maharal then confronted the Golem, recited some incantations, and the Golem disintegrated into little pieces. The Maharal stored the Golem dust – the little pieces that used to make up that monster – in the attic (the genizah) of the Altneuschul in Prague, and warned that, for their own safety nobody should ever go up to the Genizah again.

You can still visit the Altneuschul in Prague, but if you do, I don’t suggest you go up to the attic.

The problem we have with all of these technologies – whether you’re talking about a golem, or you’re talking about a computer that’s supposed to help you on your spaceship, or you’re talking about new artificial intelligence programs – is that they put machines in places where we would ideally like people to be. That golem protected Jews, but unlike a person, it didn’t know when to stop getting into people’s way. Only a person, not a lump of clay, can know when the job is done.

Similarly, I don’t think you want to hear computer-composed sermons on the Days of Awe. You want a person up here – a person who, like you, finds the world baffling sometimes; a person who, like you, has things that bring him or her joy, and others that make them feel anguish; a person who struggles to learn important truths, and who maybe has something to teach every once in a while. And if you knew ahead of time that your Days of Awe services would be led by a machine, its contours determined not by human hands but by computer algorithms, I have a feeling you’d probably stay home.

We’ve all had this experience, and we’ve had it often. You buy a new whozeemawhatz, it doesn’t work; you try to get it to work, and nothing works to get it to work. Finally, in desperation, you call customer service, and there you find yourself trapped in automated voicemail hell. “For instructions in Swahili, press one; in Flemish, press two. For whozeemawhatz insights, press three; to hear the Whozeemawhatz Choir, press four.” And all you want is to talk to a person – a person who can express a little sympathy for what you’re going through, give you some wisdom, and hopefully even share a little joy with you when you fix the problem. Even if the person can’t fix your problem, when you get through to a person, at least you have a human being to share the frustration you have. But often, all they let you do is listen to recordings and press buttons on your phone, making you feel the howling isolation of modern, high-tech life.

Yes, the central challenge of this bold new AI world of ours is one of dehumanization, of striving for efficiency and perfection by taking the person out of the equation. Human beings can be inefficient by nature, of course. We’re finite, we can only do so much; we make mistakes, and some of them are doozies; and from time to time we can even be cruel. But even with all of these shortcomings, what we humans need most as we navigate the challenges of life are other humans. Even when we can’t do everything. Even when we screw up. Even when we’re mean and offensive. This, I would suggest is the great challenge of the 21st Century. We are more connected than ever; we are more advanced than ever; and in these days of voicemail labyrinths and malfunctioning webpages and Chat GPT, we need other people, in some ways more than ever before.

Even though our sages never had artificial intelligence software, I think they were aware of this problem. For proof, I’ll draw your attention to a phrase from the ancient Rabbi Hillel that comes from Pirke Avot.

“In a place where there are no people,” Hillel taught, “strive to be a person.” I’ll say that again: “In a place where there are no people strive to be a person.”

I first learned that passage decades ago, and I always understood it to refer to our moral and ethical behavior: In a school cafeteria where one kid is sitting alone, be the kid to sit with her. In the American Jim Crow South, be the diner-owner who serves food to African Americans. In World War II Poland, be the farmer who hides Jews from the Nazis.

But today, in our world, Hillel’s ancient teaching has a new meaning. It speaks, of course, to a place in which there are no people. Where is that place today? It can be anywhere! You’re in that place when you call customer service and can’t get through to a living human being. You’re there when you get a “friend request” on social media only to realize that it’s not a person but just some bot trying to get your money. You’d be there if you came to services and heard a sermon not by your rabbi but by a really smart and highly unhuman computer. In fact, you’re there whenever this increasingly efficient, increasingly machinated, increasingly high-tech world of ours takes a person out of your field of contact and replaces it with a machine.

In a world such as this, the challenge of Hillel is a challenge for us all: Be. A. Person. Do things that are quintessentially human. Do things that machines can’t do. Be human because we all need humans in our lives, and these damned machines are chasing humans away.

What does that mean? Well, you know what it means. It means: Call up an old friend when something happens to jog a memory of them. It means: Make a point of kissing your loved ones when you come home…because machines rarely kiss, and when they do, I’m told that it’s highly unsatisfying. It means coming to Temple – in person when you can – because we need to sing with you. It means celebrating and laughing and crying and doing all of those old-fashioned things that all of the algorithms computing daily life nowadays are trying to marginalize.

Indeed, one of the great gifts of Jewish life is the clarion call to being a human – to doing things that only human beings can do. It calls upon us to pray in a minyan – to find other Jews who will sit together with us to worship. It calls upon us to love one another, and love is a human emotion, not a machine emotion. It calls upon us to show compassion, pursue justice, visit the sick, and do a host of other things that can only be done by people, not machines, even in this age of growing technological gadgetry.

In a place where there are no humans, strive to be a human. Hillel uttered those words more than 2,000 years ago. Think of how ancient that teaching is, and think of how modern it is, too.

I don’t fully know what the future will bring with these new technologies. But what I do know is that they all tend to dehumanize our world, and it is up to us to keep it human. For many of us, I think that at some level it is this very desire that brought us here today. You could have stayed home and watched services online, but you chose to sit in a room with hundreds of your fellow Temple members – to connect with them, hopefully, as individuals and as a community. And maybe to connect with generations past and future. And maybe to share something in your heart with God, in the hope that God will share back. You came here, in other words, because it is what your humanity has called you to do.

Let’s all continue to respond to that call. Because in this decreasingly human world, when machines stand in places formerly occupied by people, we as Jews and as humans, are much better off when we maintain our humanity. And being truly human is something that only we humans can do.

Shanah Tovah.

The Great Principle of Torah

Kol Nidre Sermon, September 24, 2023
By Rabbi Mark Glickman

In one of the Talmud’s most famous stories, a non-Jewish man goes up to the great Rabbi Shammai and says, “Convert me to Judaism on the condition that you teach me the entire Torah while standing on one foot.” Shammai presumably muttered under his breath something to the effect of “I can’t teach you the whole Torah while standing on one foot,” and Shammai pushed him away with a builder’s tool that he was holding.

The non-Jew then approached Shammai’s colleague, Rabbi Hillel, and asked him the same question. “Convert me to Judaism on the condition that you teach me the entire Torah while standing on one foot.” Hillel’s response was different. Hillel converted the man, and then said,

“What is hateful to you, do not do to your neighbor. That is the entire Torah. The rest is commentary. Now go and study.”

Hillel’s response is as profound as it is simple. The Golden Rule – or at least Judaism’s version of it – is the Torah. And everything else – all the stories, the rituals, the social laws, and all the rest – is simply a commentary on this verse.

Many people who study this passage forget the second part of what Hillel said – the “go and study part” – but that part is just as important as the first part, because figuring out how to keep that Golden Rule can be very complicated.

Nonetheless, Hillel argued that the entire Torah can be boiled down to that single ethical principle, a principle that could easily be taught to a curious student while standing on one foot, and that Judaism’s essential teaching is all based on not doing to others what we wouldn’t want others to do to us.

Jump ahead 2000 years. My friend and colleague, Rabbi Marla Subeck-Spanjer, tells the story about how, as a young, single rabbi, she took a position at a small congregation in Winston-Salem, North Carolina. Shortly after she arrived, she broke her ankle in several places and had to move around on crutches with her leg all bandaged up. One day, she went to a community meeting of some sort, where she got a name tag, saying “Hello, my name is Rabbi Subeck.” After the meeting, having forgotten to take off the name tag, she crutched her way into a store across the street from her temple to do an errand. As the then Rabbi Subeck stood at the counter, tottering on her one working foot and two crutches, the storekeeper, looked at her nametag and said, “Oh, you’re a rabbi? I’ve always wondered about Judaism. Tell me all about it.”

There she was, in Winston-Salem, North Carolina, being asked to tell a non-Jew all there was to know about Judaism while standing on one foot. “The worst part about it,” she told me later, “was that there was nobody there I could laugh about it with!”

Laughter aside, the question that the non-Jewish interrogator from the Talmud posed to these hopping rabbis is an important one. What, when it comes right down to it, is Judaism all about? We know, of course, some of the tangential things that Judaism is all about. It’s about kugel and knishes, bagels and bialys, synagogues and federations, Shabbat and Yom Kippur, and other holidays too numerous to list. It’s about that indescribable connection we sometimes feel with other Jews. It’s about study and Tikkun Olam, wonderful music, and it’s about responding to every mention of Israel in the media with an impressed “Oh, wow,” a pained “Oy vey,” and usually some combination of the two. It’s about what in Yiddish we call Yiddishkeit – Jewishness – in all of its many and various dimensions.

But what is it essentially? What is it at its core? Hillel gave one answer, and it’s an important one. Tonight, I’d like to add a couple of other answers that other sages from our tradition provided, each with wisdom of its own.

One of those answers comes from the great Rabbi Akiva. To the best of our knowledge, Rabbi Akiva wasn’t ever approached by a non-Jew hopping on one foot and demanding answers about the Torah, but he did offer his own teaching on what he saw as Judaism’s core principle. The Midrash teaches us that Akiva said that the greatest principle of Torah is a simple, three-word teaching from Leviticus – the portion that we read on Yom Kippur: “V’ahahvta l’re’echa kamocha. Love your neighbor as yourself.”

It’s a simple phrase, but it too, like Hillel’s favorite, is rife with complexity. The Torah commands us to “love our neighbor.” How can God reasonably command us to love anything? God can command us to do all kinds of things, but to love? When my kids were little, I tried commanding them to love brussels sprouts. It didn’t get me very far at all. Later, I tried telling them to love the people whom I had chosen to be their spouses, and, to my dismay, I learned that things just don’t work like that anymore. Love is a feeling and feelings (if you’ll excuse the mixed metaphor) have minds of their own. Love doesn’t happen on command; it’s far more spontaneous than that.

Plus, the Torah says that we should love our neighbor as ourselves. That’s odd. The Torah could have just said “Love your neighbor” and called it good. But it added this “as yourself” part. What if I don’t love myself very much? Does that mean I can be a jerk to my neighbor? And what if I show love to myself by letting myself eat pancakes three meals a day? Does this mean I should constantly feed pancakes to my neighbor, too? Probably not.

I don’t know for sure what God really meant by this commandment, and I don’t know for sure why Akiva chose it as the Torah’s core principle. But I have a feeling that it had something to do with Judaism’s constant insistence that we look beyond ourselves. Judaism refuses to let us get stuck on what’s inside us, and instead always demands that we translate our inside feeling into outside action. In Judaism, it’s not good enough to think about lighting Shabbat candles, you actually have to light them. It’s not good enough to feel compassion for the suffering of other people, though that’s important. Our compassion only counts when we translate it into action – visiting the sick, sharing with the poor, helping the fallen stand up. Outside things.

Telling us to love our neighbors as ourselves, I think, is a command to take what we know on the inside and cast it outward. You know yourself pretty well (even though your spouse or your therapist might know you better), and, Sigmund Freud notwithstanding, on a day-to-day level, you’re probably pretty tuned in to who you are what you are, and why you do most of the things you do. It’s unlikely that anybody understands your complexity better than you do, and sensitivity to the fullness of one’s self is the beginning of love.

But loving yourself is only the beginning. Self-love only counts when we externalize it when we use it to propel us to love others who are beyond the boundaries of the self

You have dreams, and so do your neighbors. You struggle to find your way, so do your neighbors. You fall short sometimes – sometimes for a good reason, and always for some reason. The same is true of your neighbors. There are times when you feel joy, and times when you suffer, and times when you’re baffled, and times when you don’t want to think about any of it and just want to watch Netflix instead. The same is true of each and every human being. And as a human being, you are worthy of love even when you don’t think you merit it. So is everyone else. So love your neighbor, for just like you, they too are magnificent if flawed human beings.

So now we have two takes on what the most central teaching of our tradition is – one that calls upon us to treat our neighbors the way we want to be treated and another that calls upon us to love them. A third answer to this question comes from another of our ancient sages. In the very same Midrashic passage telling us what Akiva felt was the most important passage in the Torah, Akiva’s colleague, Ben Azzai, disagrees, and instead weighs in with his own suggestion.

Even greater than the command to love our neighbors as ourselves is a seemingly throwaway line from the beginning of the fifth chapter of Genesis: “This is the book of the generations of Adam.”

Whaaat? In the Torah, this line seems, as I said, like a throwaway – a simple introduction to the text’s account of Adam and Eve’s genealogy after Cain and Abel. But Ben Azzai sees this commandment as even more central, more important, more profound than the commandment to love our neighbors.

Why? Maybe it’s because this little line might be trying to tell us what the Torah, and what Judaism as a whole, is really about. Many people see the Torah as a story that is ultimately about Jews and Jews only. Ben Azzai seems to reject this perspective. Torah is a story for Jews, but it is the story. And for Jews, the story is the story of humanity – a story that includes us but is also much, much bigger. Torah is the story of the generations of Adam, the first human being; not of Abraham, the first Jew. And when we focus on our own story to the exclusion of the story of others, we betray the meaning of what it means to be a Jew. Being a Jew isn’t just about making sure Jews do well, Ben Azzai is saying, it’s about making sure we all do well. It’s about making sure that all children of Adam – Jews and non-Jews alike – come to be able to enjoy God’s blessings.

An Orthodox rabbi in a community where I used to live once refused to participate in a community-wide anti-hunger campaign, arguing that, the problem with the proposed campaign was that it aimed to feed all hungry people, not just Jews, and Jews need to worry about feeding our own hungry people first. To him I respond, “This is the book of the generations of Adam.”

Last February, a Palestinian gunman murdered two Israeli settlers in the West Bank town of Huwara. In response, hundreds of Israeli settlers attacked the town, burning up to 200 buildings to the ground and killing at least one Palestinian. Rather than criticizing the continued violence, Israeli Finance Minister Bezalel Smotrich argued that the village of Huwara needs to be wiped out. To him I respond, “This is the book of the generations of Adam.”

There are those who criticize Reform Judaism for having universalist concerns about the suffering of non-Jews as well as concerns about the suffering of Jews. Here, my response and the response of us all should be clear. “This is the book of the generations of Adam.”

Three ancient sages. Three suggestions as to what is Judaism’s most central teaching. Here, as in most places, these rabbis disagree with one another, and yet, somehow, their suggestions all seem to echo the same theme. Look beyond yourself. See the humanity of others. Treat people with kindness whenever you can, because you as a human being know how important it is.

I think that each of these rabbis in his own way was trying to teach this insight. They seem to be telling us that God is trying to get this point across. Yes, life is hard, but remember that it’s hard for others too, so be compassionate. Fight if you must, but never forget the humanity of your opponent, and always strive to make the world more humane.

Transcend yourself for something greater. Transcend yourself for a better world. Transcend yourself, so others can do the same. Transcend yourself, to make the world the way it can be.

What is Judaism? How can we boil it down to something we can teach while standing on one foot? Maybe this is it. Be kind. Be just. Look beyond yourself. For when you do, you can help make this world the way it’s supposed to be for us all. This, perhaps, is truly what Judaism is all about.

Shanah Tovah.

Truth, Knowledge, and Hope: Jewish Responses to a Warming World

Rosh Hashanah Morning Sermon, September 16, 2023
By Rabbi Mark Glickman

In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth. And God said, “Let there be light,” and there was light. Then God created matter of all kinds – the land and the seas, the plants and the animals, human beings, male and female, the sun and moon and stars to shine on them all. God put everything in its place, giving us room to grow, and the rest of the world space to teem with life and activity. Then God saw all that had been made and, behold, it was very good.

Then God took a break, and the rest…is history.

The Torah tells us that God put us into the world to have dominion over it – to enjoy it – but also to take care of it, to till and to tend this God-given garden called Earth. And the story of human history is, in many ways, the story of our increased ability to do the former, and our decreasing commitment to do the latter. We humans have become very adept in our ability to exploit the Earth. We build cities whose skylines grow taller by the year; we move ourselves and our stuff from place to place with a speed that would have been unimaginable to most human beings throughout history; we remove plants and minerals from the earth, creating toys and machines and enormous structures too numerous and too great to describe in words.

It’s amazing what we can do – we’ve responded to that divine call to rule the world with great success. But along the way, we seem to be forgetting that second command: to care for the Earth, to till the garden, and to tend it.

And if you doubt me, I present to you as evidence this past summer. Do you remember summertime this year? It was hot! It was really hot. And, as I remind my friends and family in the United States, it was hot even up here in Calgary, and this is where some people move to avoid the heat.

Of course, wasn’t just hot here. Worldwide, this was the hottest summer on record – ever! And with every tank of gas, our cars burn, and with every smokestack spewing pollutants into the air, and with every forest we cut down for fuel, paper, or housing, the problem gets worse. Indeed, there is widespread scientific consensus that the world is getting hotter, that the change is caused by people, and that if we don’t do something about it soon, it’s going to get worse, and the results will be utterly catastrophic.

As you know, there is a lot of science out there on the subject of climate change.  And while I’m certainly no scientist and I don’t want us to get lost in a sea of facts, a quick glance into the scientific literature here is important. Since preindustrial times, average global temperatures have risen by more than 2 degrees Celsius, and we’re on track toward a 6-degree temperature change by the end of the century. That means that the lovely 22-degree summer days that you remember from your childhood will be 28-degree days for our descendants.

And the results of such change are going to influence us all – they already have. At current rates of change, glaciers, and polar ice will melt, causing sea level rises bound to wipe out beachfront communities and low-lying island nations. Equatorial countries will become unlivable, and entire populations will be displaced as people need to move to higher and cooler places. Already, heat waves since the 1990s are estimated to have cost the global economy more than $21.7 trillion CDN. The warming climate is already wreaking havoc on animal populations, as many species find themselves living in surroundings for which their evolution has left them unprepared. Long Island Sound doesn’t have lobsters like it used to – the water is too hot for them. Similarly, Atlantic cod populations are moving north at a rate of 100 miles per decade. Tree populations are becoming uprooted, too, with white spruce moving north at a rate of 60 miles per decade. Sharks are moving further North, and you’ve probably seen the footage of starving polar bears looking for ice floes from which they can hunt for seals.

By far, the most lethal animal to us humans is the mosquito, and now disease-carrying mosquitos live in places that used to be too cold for them. That’s dangerous. By 2080, 5 billion people – sixty percent of all human beings – will live in areas where they can contract the illnesses that these insects spread. In Mexico, mosquito-borne viruses such as dengue fever, zika, and yellow fever used to only attack people who lived in the lowlands. Now, those viruses are moving into Mexico City, one of the largest metropolises in the world.

As the world heats up, air conditioners help a lot of us, but only those of us who can afford them. And, of course, any time we turn on the AC in our cars or in our homes, that machinery adds more pollutants to the air, and we only exacerbate the problem. And while AC units do a good job of cooling the homes of the wealthy, they also spit heat out into the environment. In leafy suburbs, that’s not much of a problem, at least not directly, but studies have shown that air conditioning actually increases outdoor temperatures in large cities for people who can’t afford their own units. Air conditioning, therefore, is simply a transfer of heat from the rich to the poor. It taxes our power systems, it leads to brown-outs and blackouts. Last year, Qatar air-conditioned its open-air stadiums for the 2022 World Cup. Shouldn’t that concern us?

And then there are the fires. I’ve seen this problem grow worse even during my short seven years here in Calgary. As our forests get hotter, they get drier, and when they get drier they become tinderboxes. Then, all it takes is a bolt of lightning or a stray spark, and they become infernos. Remember the Fort McMurray fire? When it happened, I hadn’t even arrived here yet, but I certainly heard about it in the States. It was devastating. Remember Lytton? It burned in minutes – two lives were lost, hundreds of homes turned to ash, and thousands of people had to flee. And there’s Maui, and there’s Australia, and there’s the smoke we saw here day after day after day during the summer. Each smoky view obliterating the sun and sky should remind us of the consequences of our environmental negligence.

I could continue in this vein, but you get the idea.

As your rabbi, I have a few things to say about this.

First, please, take science seriously. There are strong forces today and many, many dollars that are being devoted to minimizing the threat of climate change, and it is incumbent upon us all to see through the smoky smokescreens they create.

I say this not just as a political plea, but as a Jewish one. Our people has always been committed to the truth – to study, and learning. And through the ages, we’ve honored and respected experts. “The world stands on three things,” Rabban Gamliel said many centuries ago, “on justice, on truth, and on peace.” The Torah describes God as “gracious and abundant in love and truth.” And perhaps most explicitly, the Rabbis taught that “In an argument that’s for the sake of heaven, the desired end is truth.”

Let’s embrace that as we look at the current environmental catastrophe for what it is. Let’s never avoid this truth, even though it’s scary and troubling. Let’s be like the great 12th-century sage, Maimonides, who only moonlighted as a sage back then. His day job was as a physician – as a scientist. He was deeply pious, but when an uncomfortable scientific truth-challenged his religion, he didn’t reject that truth, he reconciled it with what he already knew. Scientific truth doesn’t threaten us, it enriches us. This has always been the Jewish way, and we dare not forget it now as the fires burn and the days grow hotter.

And here I need to add something that I say with great love for this wonderful community in which I live: I never thought I would have to say something like this. I never thought that I would have to plead with a community of educated, intelligent Jews to take science seriously. But here in Calgary, I have encountered many people – good people, intelligent people, articulate observers of the world, some of them Jews, some of them even members of our own congregation – who want to minimize the risk that climate change poses. They see such concerns as liberal hokum, woke overreactions, and left-wing political propaganda.

We can understand why. Oil and gas are important to us here in Alberta. They’re our bread and butter. We depend on it. Some people butter their bread with butter; we Albertans butter ours with tar sands. Some people – yes, some people here in this room – poo-poo the science because it’s hard to see these individual events as part of a bigger problem, or because of a general mistrust of institutions and experts that seems to be spreading these days. Such obliviousness is a luxury we can’t afford, and it’s also a betrayal of our Jewish commitment to truth and to tending the garden.

Second, let’s be ready for the fact that life is going to need to change for us. That change will be real, it will be significant, and it’s going to affect our daily lives. This situation calls upon us to engage in the sacred work of Tikkun Olam, repairing our broken world. But Tikkun, repair, doesn’t come easy. It is work for us human beings – hard work. We’re already seeing some of it. Cars are becoming more efficient, regulations are sometimes growing stronger. We recycle, we compost, and we protect our world where we can. Some people refrain from using disposable cutlery; others walk to work; still, others buy energy-efficient appliances. Here at Temple, if everything goes according to plan, we’ll soon be getting solar panels on our roof, and we’ll be one of the first religious institutions in Calgary to do so.  This should make us proud (and we should thank our Environment Committee for making this happen).

Each of these steps is wonderful and holy work, because these days, protecting our world is one of the most important mitzvot we can do. But of course, each of these steps is a drop in the bucket, and none is anywhere near enough given the changes that we need to make. Protecting our world now demands worldwide, systemic change. It would be great if Canada stopped polluting the air, but if, say, India and China continue doing so, we’ll eventually choke on the fumes ourselves.

Fixing this problem will demand dramatic changes to life as we know it – and that’s particularly true for those of us who enjoy the privileges of Western life. I don’t know what those changes going to look like. Maybe it will mean warmer homes in the summertime, maybe fewer airplane rides, maybe we’ll need to stop using disposable plates and bottles and cans. Maybe we’ll need to move away from sprawling suburbs and back into more energy-efficient cities. Whatever it is, be prepared for change – and be prepared for the kind of change that we’re going to feel.

However it ends up looking, we must remember that Tikkun Olam – fixing our world – is essentially an embrace of and an understanding of the need for change. Even and especially when it affects our own lives.

And finally, let’s remember the words of the Psalmist: “Those who sow in tears, will reap in joy.” These are hard and frightening times for us and for all humanity. They will demand work, and sacrifice from us all. But we dare not despair. There is growing awareness of what we need, and we must embrace our vision of a better world:  A world of human warmth rather than environmental heat. A world of peace, justice, and truth, rather than one of propaganda and lies. A world in which each human being can have domain over the world while also tilling and tending the garden.

That, my friends, will take work, but when we do it, this new year and every new year will be good and sweet not only for us but for all humanity.

Shanah Tovah.

Shalom on the Shelf

Erev Rosh Hashanah Sermon, September 15, 2023
By Rabbi Mark Glickman

Tonight, here on the threshold of a new year, we have a lot to celebrate, but our world, as you know, is rife with conflict.  There is a war in Ukraine, agonizing political unrest in Israel, violence on our own streets here in Calgary, and growing discord wherever we turn.  Everything seems so difficult these days, everything is a battle. Will the fighting ever end?

I’m not sure that it will, but for some perspective on our current conflicts, I would like us to turn back to our history for a few minutes. And as we do, I’d like to introduce you tonight to two men, and a book. Maybe, as we meet these men, and take a look at the book, we can gain at least a little perspective.

The first man I’d like you to meet is a person named David Philipson.

Rabbi David Philipson

David Philipson was the youngest of the very first group of four Reform rabbis ordained in the United States. Born to German parents in a small town in Indiana in 1862, in his early teens Philipson moved to Cincinnati, Ohio to attend high school and to become a student at the Hebrew Union College, the newly-created rabbinical seminary in that city.  In 1883, HUC ordained its first class of rabbis – four young men, the youngest of whom was Rabbi Philipson.

When Rabbi Philipson and his three classmates were ordained, there was a huge banquet held in Cincinnati to celebrate the event. The graduation banquet was a gala affair, and anyone who was anybody – both in American Jewry, and in the general non-Jewish Cincinnati community – attended it, fully decked out in their gilded age clothing: gowns, top hats, and black ties and tails, and all the rest.

That banquet is worthy of a sermon in and of itself, but in brief, you need to remember that these were the early days of Reform Judaism. Reform Judaism was instituting revolutionary changes in Jewish life. Many people in America and Western Europe embraced these changes, but there were some who were concerned that it was changing too much and too fast. And that’s why the banquet was so scandalous. We still have the menu from that dinner, and you can see here why it caused such a fuss.

The Treyfe Banquet Menu

The appetizer (if you can make it out): little neck clams. The next course: filet of beef with soft-shell crabs and shrimp salad. And so the dinner proceeded. Sure enough, according to Rabbi Philipson’s recollections from later in his life, the people who were concerned about the speed of change in this newfangled thing called Reform Judaism stood up, stormed out, and – wouldn’t you know it – went off and started Conservative Judaism. In a sense, Conservative Judaism was born at the celebration of the ordination of four young men as Reform rabbis, one of whom was David Philipson.

Rabbi Philipson’s first pulpit was in Baltimore, MD. He earned a doctorate at Johns Hopkins University and drew acclaim as a leader in interfaith relations. During his tenure in Baltimore, Philipson became a leader in the American Reform rabbinate and was instrumental in composing the first platform of the Reform movement – a document called the Pittsburgh Platform of Reform Judaism. This statement, approved by the Reform Rabbinate in 1885, described our founding fathers’ understanding of what Reform Judaism stands for. It suggests that science and history aren’t antagonistic to our religion, but rather that they contribute to it…which was at the time, a revolutionary idea. It says that only the moral laws of Judaism are binding upon us today, not the ritual ones. It rejects Zionism, suggesting that we’re no longer a nation, but a religious community. It dismisses the ideas of heaven, hell, and the afterlife as foreign to Judaism, and it says that practices such as keeping kosher or wearing distinctive clothing are “apt rather to obstruct than to further modern spiritual elevation.”

How Reform has changed since then! What these rabbis described in the Pittsburgh Platform is what we now call Classical Reform Judaism. It was the Judaism of cavernous temples, robed choirs, and elevated rabbinic oratory. It was majestic, uplifting, and inspiring, just as its adherents felt a modern religion should be. And Rabbi David Philipson was one of its greatest American architects.

After five years in Baltimore, Rabbi Philipson moved back to Cincinnati, where he became rabbi of Bene Israel, now called Rockdale Temple, serving at that congregation for 61 years, until his death in 1949. There, he continued his interfaith work, battled corruption in the local city government, and fought antisemitism wherever he could. He edited the Reform movement’s Union Prayerbook; he wrote a comprehensive history of the Reform movement, which was still in use as recently as my own stint in rabbinical school. And as vehement he was in his opposition to antisemitism, he was also an anti-Zionist. To him, Judaism was a religion; America was his nation. “No man,” he wrote, “can be a member of two nationalities.” In 1897, he and his allies issued a statement in response to the first Zionist Congress in Basel asserting that “America is our Zion,” not the land of Israel.

David Philipson Bookplate

My uncle, Rabbi Robert Marx, studied with Rabbi Philipson shortly before Philipson’s death in the late 1940s and was able to get a few books from Philipson’s library after he died, and Philipson’s bookplate says it all.

It shows two flags – the American flag, and a Jewish flag. The American one is in front. It also shows two statues, one of Moses, and the other of George Washington. Moses is slightly behind that first American president, looking respectfully on him from the rear.

David Philipson wrote many books, taught at the Hebrew Union College, he served as president of the Central Conference of American Rabbis. Not surprisingly, he was widely known as the “Dean of the American Rabbinate.”

The other man I’d like you to meet tonight was another giant of the 20th-century Reform rabbinate – Rabbi Stephen Wise.

Rabbi Stephen Wise

Born in Budapest in 1874, Wise migrated to New York with his family as a child, but returned to Europe as a young man, receiving his rabbinic ordination and a doctorate in Vienna in 1893. He served a pulpit in New York and another in Portland Oregon before coming back to New York and founding “The Free Synagogue,” today known as the “Stephen Wise Free Synagogue.” (There were no dues; everyone paid what they could; don’t worry we’re not going to do that here.) For many years, the congregation didn’t have a building, and met instead for their weekly worship at – where else? – Carnegie Hall.

And from early on, Rabbi Stephen Wise was a colossus. In 1909, he became a founding member of the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People – the NAACP. In 1915, he helped found the American Committee on Armenian Atrocities. He fought for the rights of coal miners during labor disputes in the 1920s, speaking out for the workers even though many mine owners those workers opposed belonged to his own congregation.

In the early 1940s, Wise was one of the first American Jewish leaders to become aware of Nazi atrocities against Jews and fought with all he had on behalf of European Jewry. He spoke widely to draw attention to their plight, he traveled to Washington DC frequently to meet at the White House with his “friend Franklin” – Franklin Delano Roosevelt – and advocate for American support on their behalf, and in 1942 Wise convened tens of thousands of people at a rally at Madison Square Gardens to draw attention to their cause.

Stephen Wise was a master orator, speaking in the stentorian tones of speakers trained to address audiences before the era of electronic amplification. Here, in one of the few films available of him, from a newsreel about the Kristallnacht pogrom in Germany in 1938, you can get a sense of what he was like.

And unlike David Philipson, Stephen Wise was an ardent Zionist. He was the president of the Zionist Organization of America, he was Chairman of the United Israel Appeal, he founded and was president of the World Jewish Congress, which supported Zionism however it could.

As I mentioned, early Reform was largely opposed to Zionism, but Wise fought with all his might for the Reform movement to support the creation of a Jewish state. And realizing that the Reform movement’s seminary in Cincinnati, the Hebrew Union College, taught rabbinic students from its anti-Zionist perspective, Wise went and started his own seminary – the Jewish Institute of Religion, in New York. Later, after Wise’s death, most Reform Jews embraced Zionism, and the two seminaries merged, adopting a new mouthful of a name befitting its history – The Hebrew Union College – Jewish Institute of Religion.

Rabbi Stephen S. Wise died in 1949, and just a couple of months later, so did Rabbi David Philipson.

By this time, the State of Israel had come into being, and, as I said, the Reform Movement had overwhelmingly adopted it, ending up in favor of the Zionist perspective of Stephen Wise, and against the anti-Zionism of David Philipson.

And now for the book, I’d like to show you.

I bought it online several months ago. It’s called The Jew in English Fiction, it was published in 1889, and it was written by David Philipson. As I mentioned, Philipson wrote several books, but this one was his first. When it came out, he had just begun serving his congregation in Cincinnati, and he was 27 years old.

Hebrew Union College Library Stamp

This particular copy bears the stamps of the library at the Hebrew Union College, of which he was one of the first ordinees, and where he taught rabbinic students later in his career.

It’s safe to say that in some ways this book is subtly imbued with anti-Zionist ferment. Its author was a lifelong anti-Zionist. Its owner, the Hebrew Union College, was, at the time of its publication and for a couple of decades afterward, an anti-Zionist institution. And its content describes the significance of Jewish life not in the land of Israel, but in England – particularly in British literature. The book doesn’t explicitly address the question of a Jewish state, but it does speak of the richness of diaspora Jewry, and you can almost feel the anti-Zionism oozing out from between its pages.

Examining the book further, however, you realize that the Hebrew Union College was probably its second owner, because, on the inside front cover, you can find the bookplate of its first owner. Who owned this book first? You can see it here:

Rabbi Stephen Wise Book Plate

Ex Libris (from the library of) Stephen S. Wise. This was Stephen Wise’s personal copy of The Jew in English Fiction.

Ideologically speaking, Stephen S. Wise and David Philipson were at each other’s throats over the Zionism issue for most of their careers. Philipson was practically part of the woodwork at HUC, and Wise went so far as to open a rival seminary. During the first decades of the 20th century, as Zionism grew in strength, the arguments over the idea raged throughout our Reform movement…and these two titans were each at the helm of the opposing sides of the battle. It was a huge controversy. Philipson probably could have gotten a job at one of the big New York congregations, but a city as small as New York wouldn’t have been nearly big enough to hold these two giants!

In time, as we’ve noted, the controversy abated, and my guess is that after Wise’s death, and after the two seminaries merged, parts of his library were donated to HUC-JIR, and this volume eventually made its way to Cincinnati.

Given the nature of the argument and the size of the personalities of these two men, you would think that there would still be sparks flying from this little volume. If New York wasn’t big enough to hold them, how could this book be? But you know what? No sparks fly from these pages. Instead, the book just sits quietly on my shelf, snug and safe alongside hundreds of others. The arguments of yesteryear no longer rage between these two men – at least not like they did – and in fact, those controversies are now so quiet that it took me several minutes tonight even to describe what they disagreed about.

“That is why I have always felt such deep attachment to libraries,” Elie Wiesel writes.  “Here, within these walls, there is peace. The old quarrels subside…. All these writers and teachers, all these thinkers and lawmakers who engaged in disputations during their lifetime, now accept one another’s views with tolerance and serenity. Because of the books? Because of the silence. Here, words and silence are not in conflict—quite the contrary: they complete and enrich one another. Is it possible? In our tradition—it is.”

Our battles – they erupt with ferocity today, but later they grow quiet so quiet sometimes, that we need to remind ourselves what we were fighting about in the first place.

Remember your schoolyard fights from when you were a child? Many of them were over real hurts, and many – not all – seem almost quaint as we look back at them years afterward. The professional conflicts that we once fought so angrily? They have a way of calming down as they become distant memories. Not always, but often. Even divorced couples, who once fought with such untrammeled vengeance – over the years, the anger often subsides, leaving both parties able to be civil with one another. Even friendly.

My friends, in the year ahead, and in future years as well, you will certainly find yourself having an argument or two…and probably many more than that. And as important as these arguments might be, I invite you to look at them through the prism of this little book. In thirty years, or in fifty or one hundred, where will this conflict be then? What will the lasting effects of your argument be? I’m not saying that you should refrain from fighting – after all, in the days of Wise and Philipson, discussing the creation of a Jewish state was hugely important. I’m only suggesting a little humility – that you remember that however passionately you argue and however crucial your cause, someday, somehow, you and your opponents might end up snuggled together on the shelf of a rabbi in Calgary, Alberta.

The wars of yesterday become the skirmishes of today, and the skirmishes of today can become the fascinating footnotes of history tomorrow. Look what happened here. Two lions who once roared so loud now sit quietly together, and tonight we can learn from them both.

May this year be a year in which we all can transform memory into knowledge. Then it will be a good year, indeed.

Shanah Tovah.

How to Fear…Jewishly

Kol Nidre Sermon 2022/5783

By Rabbi Mark Glickman

It had taken several months for me to call Mike, but I liked him, and I missed him, and, frankly, I was kind of exasperated with him, so I finally decided to pick up the phone. We exchanged the usual pleasantries, and finally I got to the point. “Mike, we miss you around here,” I said. “What’s it going to take to get you to come back to services?”

“Rabbi, I’d love to come back,” Mike replied, “but I’m just not ready yet.”

“What do you mean, you’re ‘not ready’?”

I could hear him roll his eyes over the phone. Clearly, I wasn’t the first person with whom he’d had this discussion. “You know what I mean, rabbi. I’m still scared of this virus.”

I tried to be quiet, and I tried to be sensitive to his fears, but I think Mike could hear me roll my eyes, too. I caught myself, and instead tried to be kind and logical. “Look,” I said, “schools are open, workplaces are open, virus numbers are way down, you can wear a mask when you come. What more do you need?!”

“The virus numbers were up this week, rabbi!” In reality, they had ticked up lately, but they were way down from the peak. It was just enough to turn the truth into something messy. “And even if they weren’t up,” Mike continued, “I still don’t think I’d be ready to come back. Rabbi, I’m just so scared of getting sick.”

I could hear the fear in his voice. It was real. Before the pandemic, Mike had been so connected here – he came every week. But now, being in the physical presence of other human beings had become not something to look forward to, but something to dread. It was important that I be sensitive to that.

At the same time, I hoped he could hear me, too. For most of us, the virus had become far less dangerous than it once was. The world was reopening, and people were reconnecting. Sure, there was still a risk of getting sick, but there would always be risk, and our job now is not to avoid risk altogether, but to learn how to live with it. That’s because we need each other – we need to sit with each other, to see each other, to shake one another’s hands and maybe even to hug one another – it was important for us to be able to regather.

And that was precisely the problem. Temple had reopened, but many of the the seats remained empty during services (or at least many more than had been empty before the pandemic). Our community needs one another; we need our Mikes to come back, as well as our Judies and our Davids and our Sarahs and everyone else.

But Mike’s fear was real. And I cared about the guy. How could I be present with him, and also get him back to Temple?

Mike wasn’t alone in being afraid. And he’s far from the first person ever to feel that way. Fear, as you know, is an age-old human emotion. It dates back millennia, to the first person ever to watch their buddy get eaten by a lion. Sometimes, fear can be healthy, like when it inspires us to run away from large, man-eating cats. Fear can make us prudent. It can inspire us to get vaccines, and avoid dark alleys, and stop smoking. But fear, as we also know, can paralyze us. Some people are so scared of the unknown that they stay in soul-killing jobs rather than exploring newer and better paths. Others are afraid of germs, a phobia that, when severe, can be downright debilitating.

Personally, I’m terrified of snakes. And once, when we lived in Washington State, I was weeding around a shed we had in the backyard, when, suddenly, out slithered a garter snake that must have been…[hold arms wide] six inches long. And in response…well let’s just say that that was the last time I ever pulled a weed out from around that shed.

In Hebrew there are two words for fear – pachad and yir’ah – and I think that understanding them might help Mike and me come to a meeting of the minds.

The first of those two words – pachad – could also be translated as terror. It’s what you feel when you round the bend and find a growling bear waiting for you on the other side. It’s what soldiers feel when they’re surrounded by a vicious enemy and realize that the battle is lost. It’s what all those people in monster movies felt when running away at hyper-speed to avoid getting squashed by Godzilla.

Yir’ah, on the other hand, is different. Yir’ah also means fear, but’s it’s often translated as awe. And usually, it’s a good thing. A Jew, for example, is supposed to live life with a sense of yir’at shamayim – a fear of God, an awe of God, a feeling of veneration for God. Unlike, pachad, yir’ah isn’t terror. Instead, it’s wonder. It’s respect. It’s reverence. This is the kind of fear that reminds us that awful and awesome ultimately mean the same thing. When we feel yir’ah, we live with awe. Yir’ah doesn’t make us flee from lions; it makes us appreciate their beauty and majesty, instead. It doesn’t make us afraid of heights, it puts us in awe of them. It doesn’t make us fear things that go bump in the night, it makes us grateful for the mysteries enfolded in each night’s darkness. Yir’ah is the kind of fear that makes us feel small and large all at the same time.

Pachad and yir’ah – each is a type of fear, each is a genuinely human feeling, and each leads to radically different responses. Pachad paralyzes us, yir’ah inspires us. People feeling pachad for others become suspicious of them, and often demonize them; people feeling yir’ah for others appreciate them and feel compassion for them, even though those other people are so different and so puzzling…and sometimes because of it. Pachad makes us run; yir’ah makes us stop and think, with our hearts racing and our jaws agape in wonder. In the short term, pachad is essential, because can save our lives. In the long term, yir’ah is equally important, because can save our souls.

A neurologist might tell us that pachad comes from our amygdala – our inner brain, our lizard brain, whereas yir’ah comes from our cerebral cortex. I might suggest that yir’ah also comes from our heart – the source of our spirit – and that our ability to feel it is one of our most profoundly human traits.

For much of the pandemic, it was pachad that saved us. When it hit, we had to lock down, and we had to do it quick. And if we didn’t run away from the monster, it would have destroyed us. Of course, there were moments of yir’ah early on, too, as we reached out to others, and tried to show kindness from amidst the fear. Still, in the early days of a pandemic, it’s pachad that ultimately saved the day.

That day has come, and that day is gone. The pandemic still attacks, and it is still a threat, but it is no longer the threat that it once was. As a result, we have a little breathing room. We can determine how to be careful, and how to live with our fear. We can act out of a desire to preserve life, but also out of a desire to enrich it. We can move from pachad to yir’ah.

The great sage, Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel, perhaps said it best when he argued that fear is the anticipation of pain, whereas awe is hopeful and entails the anticipation of good. You’ve experienced both of these even during the pandemic. We all have. The virus terrified us, and to avoid letting it destroy us, we responded with caution and intelligence. Not to have done so would have made things horrible. And you’ve also seen goodness during these past few years. People reaching out in care and love; scientists doing amazing work to protect us; the transformation that can come from sitting quietly at home more than we can in normal times. These are good things, and when we respond with awe to difficulties, this is what we can experience.

To be clear, I’m not saying that we should throw all of our Covid concerns to the wind. What I am saying is that the time has come to respond to its threat not as if it was a lion waiting to pounce on us, but simply as an illness we can get if we’re not careful. It’s essential that we continue to take sensible precautions, but now we can take other factors into account, as well – our need to sit with others, the importance of community, the reality that life always entails risk, and a life fully lived doesn’t reject risk, but manages it, instead.

Mike, if you’re listening to my words tonight, I assume you’re doing so online. Wherever you are, I want you to know that we understand that you’re afraid, but we miss you. And we are incomplete without you. And we hope you come back soon, because without you sitting here, our community remains incomplete. My hope for you is that, with wisdom, courage, and every necessary precaution, you can transition from the necessary responses of pachad fear, to the reverent mode of awesome fear – yir’ah

These are complicated days, and they demand that we make difficult decisions. As we do, may we be motivated by the sanctity of human life, our need for human connection, and courage to do what we must despite the risks that those activities entail. And may the fear we all experience lead us to the safety we need to lay pachad aside and live with awe – yir’ah – for all that is good and holy in our magnificent world.

Shanah Tovah.