Nine Thoughts on This Damn War

We are now more than one hundred days into the Israel-Hamas War. As the violence continues and the death counts rise, many in our community have asked me for my views as to what’s going on. As a result, I thought I’d take this opportunity to share some of my current thinking during these very difficult days.

A couple of caveats: First, my own views, perhaps like yours, are constantly changing, so my observations below may be very different than they are tomorrow. I share these thoughts with you as part of what I hope will be an ongoing dialogue in our congregation about what is going on. Also, this is not a systematic position paper. Rather I thought I’d just send you several somewhat random thoughts as what I hope will be healthy food for thought during this very difficult time.

  1. Israel is fully within its rights to fight this war.

The first question that philosophers who engage in “Just War Theory” ask is that of jus ad bellum – whether a country has a right to go to war in a given situation. In this case, the answer is clear: On October 7, Israel was attacked by thousands of Hamas terrorists. They murdered more than 1200 people and committed many other horrible atrocities. Moreover, Hamas has made it clear that, given the opportunity, they will commit these atrocities over and over again. In the absence of a diplomatic solution, Israel is left with no choice but to respond with military force. For Israel not to do so would be tantamount to committing an act of national suicide.

As I argued during my October 13 sermon, this is a time for moral clarity on the part of the Jewish people. Those who would deny Israel the right to engage in this war are calling for Israel to hand over its citizens and its national destiny to murderers at its doorstep. In the rising rhetoric din around us at this moment, remembering Israel’s fundamental right to self-defense grows more important each day.

  1. Hamas can indeed be defeated.

From the outset, many people (myself included) have asked whether Hamas can indeed be defeated. Can we kill every one of them? Even if Israel wins at some level, won’t there always be one radicalized twelve-year-old whose family was murdered and grows up to be part of a new generation of terrorists? We’re dealing with a terrorist movement here – can Israel ever really defeat it?

Yes! It will be difficult, of course, and there’s always the danger of Israel becoming mired in a seemingly unending conflict similar to the way the US got stuck in Vietnam and Afghanistan. But those aren’t the only models that history provides. It’s also possible that, with the help of an international coalition, Israel can overcome Hamas just like Allied forces overcame the Nazis during World War II. There are still Nazis, of course, and even with Hitler’s downfall, there remain people committed to perpetuating his evil. But the US did succeed in stripping the Nazis of their military power, and in denuding them of the ability to fulfill their goals. If Israel fights this war right, it can do the same thing with its enemies, too. Victory might not come quickly, but to argue that it can’t ever happen in principle is to grant Hamas a legitimization that we cannot afford.

  1. The deaths of so many Gazan civilians is utterly tragic.

Israel has reportedly has killed more than 20,000 people in this war – many of them civilians, many of them women and children. Those are Hamas’s statistics, and they may be inflated. But even if the real number of victims amounts to only a fraction of that number, that amounts to a lot of victims. Israel doesn’t target civilians, of course, and there is no doubt that some civilian deaths are inevitable during war. Nevertheless, I don’t see Israel taking these deaths as seriously as I believe it should. We here in the diaspora are talking about Gazan civilians a lot, and I wish Israel seemed to be doing the same.

Even as it fights this war, couldn’t Israel set up hospitals for wounded civilians on the border? Couldn’t it airlift in food and medical supplies? Maybe or maybe not, but I wish the tragic deaths of civilians appeared more readily on the Israeli “radar” than they seem to be appearing now.

  1. Israel must give Palestinians reason for hope.

Even as it fights this important war, it concerns me that Israel doesn’t seem to be giving Palestinians any reason for hope – hope that Israel can have any role in making things better for them, hope that there might be a good reason for Palestinians and Israelis to work together to build a better, more peaceful time for them all. This is partly the result of the right-wing policies of Israel’s current government, and I fear that, if those policies are allowed to remain in place, it will be to the long-term detriment of Israel and its citizens.

Though I am certainly not an expert in international policy, it seems to me that it behooves Israel to give innocent Palestinians some reason to believe that Israel can be their partners in peace, even as it fights Hamas in war.  Offer settlement freezes in the West Bank; offer infrastructure improvements in Gaza in return for Hamas stepping down; offer something to build a better tomorrow. If Israel doesn’t, I fear that the cycle of violence will only continue.

  1. Israel is not committing genocide.

Just as I’m not a policy expert, so too am I not a lawyer. Yet it is clear to me that the genocide accusation against which Israel is currently defending itself in The Hague is preposterous. The UN Convention on Genocide defines genocide as “acts committed with intent to destroy, in whole or in part, a national, ethnic, racial or religious group.” The key word here is “intent.” Yes, some Israeli leaders have made ugly comments about what they’re trying to do during this war, but the goal of Israel’s war in Hamas is not the destruction of Palestinians or Gaza; instead, the goal is self-defense. Tragically, Hamas hides behind Gazan civilians, and innocent people often get caught in the crossfire.

Israel isn’t genocidal. Instead, Israel is fighting to avoid falling victim to the genocide that Hamas is trying to perpetrate.

  1. Here in Calgary, things seem to be quieting down…a bit.

I’ve spent many hours since October 7 speaking with individuals and groups in our congregation. Not only have we been traumatized by the war, but we’ve also been dealing with an agonizing spike in antisemitic fervor here on the home front. During the past couple of weeks, however, I’ve noticed that things seem to be getting a little better – just a little. Yes, the antisemitic ugliness is still out there, but it seems to have tapered a bit. Without denying the reality of the challenges we still face, it is encouraging to see that things may be slowly improving. May it continue to be so.

  1. I am working to build bridges.

In the wake of the October 7 attacks, many non-Jews reached out to us offering support. With a few notable exceptions, however, most Muslim leaders remained silent. In fact, most of them rebuffed me when I extended my hand in an effort to build bridges connecting our two communities. It was deeply troubling, but given the depth of the trauma on the part of both Muslims and Jews, maybe I should have expected it.

I have, however, continued to do what I can to connect with local Muslims, and lately, my efforts have begun to pay off. I don’t have anything firm to announce just yet, but I do want you to know that the work continues. I hope that we can foster connection even in the face of the violent divisions keeping us so separate in recent days.

  1. Many of us disagree.

Our Temple community includes people with a wide variety of views on these issues: Some of us like Netanyahu; others are in favor of the opposition. Many of us support the war; others see it as genocide. Most of us feel sympathy for Israel, some of us are deeply critical of it, and many of us feel both of those emotions. We are a Jewish community, so this is just as it should be.

Let’s remember that Judaism has never seen disagreements as existential threats. Instead, our tradition has always held that disputes – when engaged in constructively and respectfully – can only strengthen us. Each such conflict can, according to the rabbis, be a disagreement for the sake of heaven.

Sadly, I’ve many of us get so angry about these disagreements that we lose the ability to talk to those with whom we disagree – choosing instead to complain to others rather than engage in constructive dialogue. I encourage you not to let this happen. When somebody says something you find objectionable, talk with them about it. When you disagree, engage in dialogue. And be sure to do so not to vanquish your opponent, but rather to understand more deeply where they’re coming from, and maybe to share why you feel the way you do, too. Maybe you can each learn a thing or two in the process.

  1. Stay at the table

In fact, the spirit of constructive dialogue should imbue everything we do these days. The recent conflict in Israel has thrown up walls separating people from people, and it’s tragic. Talk with your Muslim neighbors; talk with Jews who disagree with you; talk with people and groups who say things that make you angry. We need to stay at the table with all these people because they are our neighbors, and if we can’t talk with our neighbors, then we give the forces of conflict a victory right here in our own community – and to do so would be a real tragedy.

As I said, I share these thoughts with you in the spirit of ongoing dialogue and reflection. If you would like to connect with me about any of these issues, please feel free to reach out.

In the meantime, I know you join me in the heartfelt prayer that these days of conflict and violence will soon give way to peace and security for all those who find themselves in harm’s way during these difficult and dangerous times.

 

Israel Trip Update #6: Last Day in Israel

My visit to Israel is about to draw to a close.

This morning, we began in Tel Aviv, with a briefing from a high-ranking IDF official. He described some of the challenges – military ones and others – that Israel is facing in this chaotic and scary time of war.

From there, we went to Shura, an army base near Ramle. This is where the bodies of terror victims and fallen soldiers are taken for identification. We saw racks of stretchers that had been used for the deluge of bodies that had recently come into the facility. We saw large refrigeration units where the bodies were stored. We entered a room – one of many – where the families of fallen soldiers can spend time with the bodies of their loved ones. We learned that, while other Western countries try to notify the families of fallen soldiers within an hour after the bodies are identified, Israel tries to do it within fifteen minutes. Israel is a small country, they reminded us, and the IDF wants to be sure that families learn the tragic news of their loved ones’ deaths from the IDF itself rather than through social media. They describe it as “the race against WhatsApp.”

Shura is also the headquarters of the IDF’s rabbinate. One of its chaplains showed us a large warehouse and processing center for Torah scrolls, donated from around the world for use in Israel’s army bases. We heard stories of how, on October 7, the terrorists knew ahead of time where the synagogues were located in the communities they attacked, and how they targeted those synagogues – not only to find people there but also to get their hands on Jewish sacred items. We saw state-of-the-art talitot katan – fringed undergarments (quick-drying ones) that even most secular soldiers are choosing to wear under their uniforms these days.

I’ve said in previous emails that I’ll save my reflections on this experience for my Zoom session with you on Monday, November 20, at 7:00 PM. I will, however, share one thought here.

Seeing the way Israel has had to deal with the massive number of deaths it experienced after the attacks gave me a sense, I think, of what Allied soldiers must have experienced when they liberated the death camps of Nazi Europe. I didn’t see any dead bodies, of course, and the number of deaths here in Israel was far less than the number of those killed during the Holocaust, but still….

And then, on the way back to Jerusalem from Shura, we got caught in a traffic jam. That’s because, for the most part, Israelis are still going to work each morning, and they’re still shopping, and their kids are going to school. Life goes on here, even in the face of tragedy.

Israel these days, in other words, is the land of death and traffic jams. That is the terrible, inspirational, bewildering reality of this magnificent country today.

In a few hours, I board a plane to head home to Calgary… and I look forward to seeing you very, very much.

Shalom,

Rabbi Mark Glickman

Israel Trip Update #5: Visiting Kibbutzim

Shalom Everyone,

Having been in Israel for a few days now, I am finding my experience here to be horrible, comforting, and inspirational all in equal measure. As I mentioned in previous emails, please join me on Zoom, at 7:00 PM, Monday, November 20 for a full report and reflections.

Our day began with a visit to Natal, an organization providing various kinds of trauma therapy to people throughout Israel. We heard about the amazing work they are doing in response to the recent violence.

From there, we went to Shefayim, a kibbutz and resort hotel North of Tel Aviv. After October 7, this kibbutz took in hundreds of evacuees from Kfar Azza, another kibbutz near the Gaza Strip that suffered horribly from the Hamas attacks. The evacuees still remain at Shefayim, and we met with several of them today. In vivid detail, they shared stories of what they experienced on that horrible day. Hearing what they endured brought tears to our eyes; hearing their commitment to rebuilding their lives and their community was nothing short of inspirational.

Then, we drove south to Kfar Azza itself. Before arriving, we stopped at another nearby kibbutz, Sa’ad, where we met IDF liaisons who outfitted us with helmets and flak jackets.

And then we went to Kfar Azza. It was utterly horrific. I’ll share the details on Monday about what we saw. Here, suffice it to say that, of Kfar Azza’s 960 residents, 62 were killed on October 7, and 18 were kidnapped (of whom seven were children). We saw their destroyed homes; we went into the safe rooms where they cowered for days as the terrorists rampaged through their community; we met with more survivors. And through it all, we heard deafening booms of outgoing mortars and saw smoke rising above Gaza City in the distance.

The day ended more joyfully, as we went to a small army base called Magen Alumim, where 150 or so soldiers are stationed.  We schmoozed with them, they told us their stories, and we had the opportunity to treat them to a wonderful barbecue dinner. They were so grateful. We ended the evening by putting our arms around their shoulders to share a prayer and a rousing chorus of Hatikvah. At that moment, at least for me, the tears flowed once again.

Tomorrow is my final day in Israel, and I’ll try to get another update to you before my plane leaves late at night. For now, I’ll just conclude by saying that ALL of the Israelis we’ve met seem genuinely grateful that we are here – soldiers, survivors, care workers, and all the rest. It’s been an honor to spend time with them and to share wishes for comfort and strength on my behalf, and on your behalf, too.

Shalom,

Rabbi Mark Glickman

Israel Trip Update #4: Visiting Ashkelon

Shalom from Israel,

I am just concluding the first day of my trip here – a solidarity mission to Israel with Reform and Conservative rabbis from North America – and the experience has also been both emotionally overwhelming and powerfully inspirational. I’m still processing much of it, and I’ll save my Big Thoughts for a Zoom report and discussion next Monday night at 7:00 PM. Please save the date, and watch your email for details. Here, as I still try to make sense of it, I’ll just share a few highlights.

My plane arrived late last night. Walking through the airport took me past a long hallway lined for a hundred meters or so with pictures of the hostages…old people, young adults, children… one picture every few feet it was deeply moving.

Little did I know what I would encounter today.

This morning, I traveled back to the airport to meet the rest of my group and our guide. Our first stop was at Brothers for Life (Achim L’chayim), an organization that supports wounded Israeli soldiers, ensuring that they receive needed medical care, attending to their mental health needs, and giving them a nice place to simply hang out with one another. We met some of the soldiers and learned about this organization’s important work.

From there, we went to Tel Aviv, where the plaza outside the Bronfman Cultural Center was filled with 239 empty beds – some of them cribs – one for each hostage.

Empty beds.

From there, proceeded to a nondescript office building, went up to the sixth floor, and entered a facility the likes of which I never would have imagined even existed. This was the headquarters of the Hostages and Missing Families Forum. It looked like a cramped “Mission Control Center,” busy with cubicles, folding tables, and computer screens, littered with pizza boxes and empty coffee cups. This is where the families of the hostages and their representatives do their work. They connect hostage families with government officials and resources, they conduct press conferences, they convene groups of foreign dignitaries, and, whenever possible, they negotiate on behalf of the hostages. There, our group met with several former Israeli ambassadors who are working on behalf of the hostages, and we also heard from several of the family members themselves, who told us their heartrending stories.

Then it was on to Kikar HaChatufim – Hostages Square. Until a few weeks ago, this was simply the plaza outside the Tel Aviv Museum, but now it is filled with moving displays of all kinds – a Shabbat table with a place set for each hostage, beautiful sculptures and other artistic creations, and people too numerable to count walking around holding pictures of their kidnapped loved ones. Our group participated in a prayer service as we joined in expressing our fervent hope that the hostages return home soon.

Over a late dinner, we heard from a man whose sister and brother-in-law had been taken captive, and we also had a conversation with Alon Tal, an American-born member of the Knesset who shared some of his perspectives regarding these recent events.

All day long, everyone we met told us how very much they appreciate our being here, and how important it is to them that we tell the world about what is happening on the ground here. I plan to do everything I can to do just that.

Tomorrow includes more briefings and visits – please stay tuned for updates.

Shalom,
Rabbi Mark Glickman

Israel Trip Update #3 Shalom From Israel

Shalom from Israel,

I am just concluding the first day of my trip here – a solidarity mission to Israel with Reform and Conservative rabbis from North America – and the experience has also been both emotionally overwhelming and powerfully inspirational. I’m still processing much of it, and I’ll save my Big Thoughts for a Zoom report and discussion next Monday night at 7:00 PM. Please save the date, and watch your email for details. Here, as I still try to make sense of it, I’ll just share a few highlights.

My plane arrived late last night. Walking through the airport took me past a long hallway lined for a hundred meters or so with pictures of the hostages…old people, young adults, children… one picture every few feet it was deeply moving.

Little did I know what I would encounter today.

This morning, I traveled back to the airport to meet the rest of my group and our guide. Our first stop was at Brothers for Life (Achim L’chayim), an organization that supports wounded Israeli soldiers, ensuring that they receive needed medical care, attending to their mental health needs, and giving them a nice place to simply hang out with one another. We met some of the soldiers and learned about this organization’s important work.

From there, we went to Tel Aviv, where the plaza outside the Bronfman Cultural Center was filled with 239 empty beds – some of them cribs – one for each hostage.

Empty beds.

From there, proceeded to a nondescript office building, went up to the sixth floor, and entered a facility the likes of which I never would have imagined even existed. This was the headquarters of the Hostages and Missing Families Forum. It looked like a cramped “Mission Control Center,” busy with cubicles, folding tables, and computer screens, littered with pizza boxes and empty coffee cups. This is where the families of the hostages and their representatives do their work. They connect hostage families with government officials and resources, they conduct press conferences, they convene groups of foreign dignitaries, and, whenever possible, they negotiate on behalf of the hostages. There, our group met with several former Israeli ambassadors who are working on behalf of the hostages, and we also heard from several of the family members themselves, who told us their heartrending stories.

Then it was on to Kikar HaChatufim – Hostages Square. Until a few weeks ago, this was simply the plaza outside the Tel Aviv Museum, but now it is filled with moving displays of all kinds – a Shabbat table with a place set for each hostage, beautiful sculptures and other artistic creations, and people too numerable to count walking around holding pictures of their kidnapped loved ones. Our group participated in a prayer service as we joined in expressing our fervent hope that the hostages return home soon.

Over a late dinner, we heard from a man whose sister and brother-in-law had been taken captive, and we also had a conversation with Alon Tal, an American-born member of the Knesset who shared some of his perspectives regarding these recent events.

All day long, everyone we met told us how very much they appreciate our being here, and how important it is to them that we tell the world about what is happening on the ground here. I plan to do everything I can to do just that.

Tomorrow includes more briefings and visits – please stay tuned for updates.

Shalom,
Rabbi Mark Glickman