Why I Support LIFE & LEGACY

In 1998 I was offered a position at the University of Calgary. Before I accepted, I needed to know that there was a good Jewish congregation in Calgary for me and my son. Temple B’nai Tikvah was the only choice – it was then the only Calgary congregation that would let me on the bimah. But it offered much more.  From the first service we attended, we found a warm and welcoming egalitarian community, a congregation committed to inclusion and diversity, that combined worship, learning, and tikkun olam. Temple became my Jewish home. I celebrated my Bat Mitzvah here at age 59, my son and daughter-in-law were married here, my grandsons were welcomed into Jewish community here.

Three years after I joined Temple, Rabbi Howard Voss-Altman invited me to join the Temple Board. I’m still there, still moved by the diverse commitments to Judaism that inspire Board members to support Temple’s worship, services, and community.

I support LIFE & LEGACY because I want to ensure that Temple B’nai Tikvah endures. I want it to be there to welcome newcomers and connect us, however we engage Jewishly. My two most important reasons are my grandsons. I want our congregation to be there for them as they attend Shabbat School and celebrate their Bar Mitzvahs, to be there for them as adults if they remain in Calgary. I trust that wherever they may go some generous people are now ensuring that another congregation will be there to welcome them. LIFE & LEGACY expresses my gratitude for this community. It is my small contribution to ensuring Jewish community l’dor v’dor, from generation to generation, for all our children and grandchildren.

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Heart of Our Temple Building

Temple Board of Directors have agreed to replace our 1955 cast iron boiler this summer. I consider the boiler to be the “heart of our building” as it keeps us warm in the winter by delivering hot water to the radiators throughout the building. The 68-year-old boiler will be replaced by two Cleaver Brooks energy efficient condensing boilers. Nine pumps that operate continuously will be replaced by two operating pumps with two spares. This design is expected to reduce our operating costs using less electricity and less natural gas.

The boiler room is in the basement on the north side of the building. We will be shutting down the system at the beginning of July in order to begin construction. The old equipment will be removed making room for the new boilers and pumps that will be installed this August. There will be no heat in the building this summer. The plan is to have the new system operational by September 1, 2023, in time for High Holidays which begin on September 15, 2023.

Our building is 68 years old, so it is important that we maintain it. The building is heated by one boiler. The existing system has no redundancy. That means if the old boiler breaks down, there will be no heat in the building. The new system will have redundancy.  As of September, if one pump fails, we will have a backup.  If one boiler has a problem the other boiler will maintain heat.

If you have any questions regarding this project, please contact me by phone or email. I will be pleased to answer. I am excited to see the old system replaced with modern energy efficient equipment.

What LIFE & LEGACY Means to Me

In February 1979 I moved to Calgary, and in April Judy and Ron Bing and others had the first get-together of what would become Temple B’nai Tikvah. I heard about the Bing get-togethers but decided to spend some time exploring the other Jewish resources in Calgary before committing to one. After a couple of years, however, it became clear to me that Temple would be my Jewish home. Having left all my Jewish relatives thousands of miles away, the congregation quickly became true family for me.

Some years I was very active, and others not so much. But as with biological relatives, Temple was always there, offering me Jewish holiday observance, community Seders, and Jewish friends. So, when the idea emerged that we could build an endowment fund to ensure Temple’s future for the long term, I knew I wanted to join. I changed my after-life bequest from being a direct donation to Temple, to a donation to Temple’s endowment fund; this way, the funds will generate interest income forever. And I decided that this is where I would devote my volunteer hours, because I believe so strongly about working together to ensure the financial future of our Jewish institutions. I am thrilled that our first four years of work have touched so many hearts: almost 20% of the Temple congregation has joined the LIFE & LEGACY program.

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Passover Messages 5782

Mirrors in the Haggadah: Some Lessons Shining Forth from the Page
By Rabbi Mark GlickmanOf the many Haggadot in my library, one of my favorites was created by the Israeli artist, David Moss. It is a magnificent treasure, replete with gold-leaf overlays, papercuts, moveable pages, drawings made up of microscopic Hebrew lettering and much more.

But my favorite page of all is the Haggadah’s rendering of “B’chol dor vador […]. In every generation, each person must see themselves as if they had made the exodus from Egypt.” The two-page spread is arranged like a checkerboard, with pictures of various Jews throughout Jewish history alternating with small oval mirrors. Looking at the page, therefore, you see an array of Jews from different times and places, each of whom is to see him or herself as having come out of Egypt, and at the same time, you see in mosaic the picture of another individual who is supposed to see him or herself the same way – you!

It’s a page with powerful lessons, and many of them are essential to the Passover Seder. For example, the Seder urges us to see ourselves. Its liturgy is far more than a recollection of history, it’s a present-day text, as well. For as we read of what happened to our ancestors, we remember that we, too, are unredeemed, and we, too, need to figure out how we’re going to put all that “enslaves” us behind so that we can get to the promised land. Doing so takes reflection; it demands introspection; it calls upon us to really take a good look at ourselves. Almost as if we were looking into a mirror.

Furthermore, the text calls upon us to do this reflection “b’chol dor vador, in every generation.” As we project ourselves into Jewish history this Pesach, we’ll be doing just what Jews have been doing for centuries. And, God willing, we’ll also be doing the same thing Jews will be doing many centuries from now. These old words – not to mention the values they embody and the truths they teach – connect us with our people over vast spans of time and space. Our grandparents read these words, and our great-grandparents, too. Uttering them is thus an act of eternity for us. And with our help, it will continue to be – in every generation.

Finally, it’s important to remember that the Haggadah doesn’t call us to remember that we were slaves in Egypt, nor does it ask us to remember wandering through the wilderness. Instead, it says that we should remember that we “went out” from Egypt. It asks us, in other words, to remember the transition, the transformation.

Even when things get really bad, in other words, and even when they seem hopeless, transformation is possible. In an era of ongoing illness, terrifying war, and growing polarization, the lesson is particularly timely.

When I look at the little mirrors on the page of my Moss Haggadah, I think about all these lessons – reflection, continuity, and transformation. And if I think about them hard enough, I’m sure they’ll be able to carry me through until next Pesach even as they help me live out the important lessons they teach.

Rabbi Mark Glickman

President’s message
Pesach, 5782

This year’s Passover season is a particularly busy on in our family.

We have the usual stresses of Passover meal cooking (I do most of the it in our family) and seder preparation (as our kids get older, we incorporate more complicated passages), as well as the new stress of Zoom call setup since my family is spread out across borders and time zones. This year I’m also helping our Board navigate a gradual return to in-person services while monitoring COVID closely, and working on regular Temple business while setting up a leadership transition since my two years are almost up.

In addition to all of that, my mother-in-law is selling and moving from the home she’s lived in for over 30 years, and we’re helping her get ready. In this market, her house sold more quickly than expected, and she has less than a month to pack up – or say goodbye to – a lifetime’s worth of meaningful things and their attendant memories. And for me, helping her move is helping provide meaning for my Passover season.
Helping sort and pack, sell and donate, while also cooking, keeping an eye on a pandemic, and doing regular work, reminds me a lot of the Passover story. The Israelites in Egypt also had a very short time to gather their belongings, sorting through what was valuable and what could be sold or given away, and prepare for a new life. And somehow, in the middle of all that, they finished their daily work as slaves, cooked and ate a nice meal, and hoped that the Angel of Death passing outside wouldn’t cross the threshold of their home.

Of course, we today have an advantage the Israelites didn’t have. They had heard stories of a promised land, but had never seen it. We, on the other hand, know where we’re going – that sanctuary with the bright kippot on 47 Avenue SW in Britannia. In fact, in-person services have resumed, and while you can still attend through Zoom or StreamSpot, each week the number of people attending service in person (masked and vaccinated) grows. We’re able to do more with the video projectors and screens we’ve installed over the last year, as well as the more-accessible automatic doors. Post-service onegs and luncheons have resumed – hopefully for good, though we’re being very careful and watchful.

We’re even already working to improve our “promised land” in a lot of ways. We’re undertaking a major project to replace our aging boiler with a more modern and energy-efficient system. We’re discussing the addition of solar panels to further bring down our operating costs while doing our part to save the planet. And we’re adding new security features – including a standing security committee – to help keep congregants safe.

And, of course, our programming continues, with lots of opportunities for education at all ages, social events, and social action projects to help our tikkun olam efforts. There are all sorts of ways through Temple to create Jewish meaning for yourself.

Like our forebears, we’re living in a stressful time, with a lot of upheaval and change – not to mention concerns for safety. But as we can see from the Pesach story, that’s nothing new for us. We can take from our forebears’ story the knowledge that there are good times ahead. Some of this stress is good stress, and I look forward to sharing the calmer days with you.

Josh Hesslein,
President

Masks: They’re Not Just for Purim Anymore

Yom Kippur Morning Sermon – 2021/5782

By Rabbi Mark Glickman

There are many rabbis who choose a single theme to drive all of their Days of Awe sermons each year. I typically don’t do that – at least not intentionally – but this year, one seems to have emerged on its own. The theme: “It has been a hell of a year.”

I don’t need to recount all of the biological, sociological, economic, emotional, and spiritual factors that have made this year so difficult – you lived them all yourselves. What I will note is the frustration that many of us – particularly here in Alberta – have felt in recent weeks over the fact that this pandemic could have been far closer to its end had more of us worn masks and gotten vaccines in our arms. Sadly, as you know, some of our neighbours have refused to do so, the resistance is growing in both magnitude and volume, and we’re all suffering as a result.

I’m not a physician, so this sermon won’t tout the medical benefits of masks and vaccinations. The medical community has already rendered those benefits an established fact. I am, however, a rabbi, so I would like to share with you a few comments about this situation from a Torah perspective.

First, as the leaders of most Jewish denominations from left to right have affirmed, getting vaccinated and wearing masks are sacred religious obligations. There is a concept in Jewish law that our Temple board and staff have cited in many letters and emails to you about our COVID-19 policies – it’s called pikuach nefesh. This refers to the fact that, according to Jewish law, you break almost any commandment in order to save a human life. There are a few exceptions: you’re not allowed to murder someone or commit idolatry or incest under any circumstances, but even those exceptions (particularly the idolatry one) become a little fuzzy when these laws get applied. Overall, however, saving people’s lives – and even protecting people against a potential risk to their lives – is primary in Jewish law. In Judaism, you do anything you need to do – anything – in order to save people’s lives and protect them from danger.

Many anti-vaxers and anti-maskers these days object that masking and vaccination requirements impinge on their freedoms. To this, Judaism has a clear reply: You bet they impinge on your freedoms, because in a civilized society, you’re not free to kill people, and you’re not free to imperil their lives. We limit freedoms all over the place, because that’s how we reduce unfair harm to other people. The medical community has shown us beyond a doubt that masks and jabs save lives, and Judaism rightly points out that this renders all discussions of freedom moot.

In fact, to tell you the truth, Judaism doesn’t really care about freedom. In Canadian law, of course, we have the Charter of Rights and Freedoms, and I grew up in the United States studying the Bill of Rights – for a couple of centuries now, rights and freedoms have been a common theme in Western Law. In Judaism, however, we don’t have a Charter of Rights or a Bill of Freedoms. Instead, the most widely known and widely celebrated passage of our scripture is the Ten Commandments, and we Jews spend a lot of time thinking about how to do mitzvot. Mitzvot are commandments, and Jewish scripture has 613 of them.

The central question of Jewish life, in other words, is not what we get to do, but what we should do. And particularly during times of worldwide crisis such as this, it is essential that we keep this question in mind. Clearly, Canadian law, as well as the laws of most other countries, give you the right to go around unmasked, and they give you the right not to get vaccinated…but who cares? The question we Jews should be asking – and here I’ll say the question we all should be asking – is “What should we do?” And what we should do is get vaccinated.

Uvacharta bachayyim, the Torah tells us – Choose life! Without qualification. It doesn’t tell us to choose life as long as it’s comfortable. And it doesn’t tell us to choose life as long as it’s convenient. And it certainly doesn’t tell us to choose freedom before we choose life.

Vaccines and masks save lives. Period. That, our tradition teaches, should be the end of the discussion. They are important for us all, even at the cost of a few minor elements of our personal freedoms. Get vaccinated; wear a mask. It is your sacred obligation.

My second comment comes as a result of the nauseating increase in the number of people these days who are turning to religion to justify their resistance to masks and vaccinations. Even though, thankfully, most major religious denominations have called for their adherents to get their shots and cover their faces, still there are those who resist taking these steps in the very name of religion. You see it locally, as churches and religious leaders here in town openly defy masking mandates and other COVID restrictions. They say that God will take care of us provided that we pray, as if we have no obligation to the health of our community. They say that faith rather than medicine will bring true healing. They say that vaccines bring contamination rather than safety for us all. One of these churches actually approached us here at Temple asking to rent our facilities. Needless to say, their request didn’t go very far.

Everywhere, people are seeking religious exemptions to allow their children to go to school unmasked and unvaccinated.  In fact, the state of Vermont in the U.S. used to allow both religious and non-religious exemptions for the vaccinations of their schoolchildren. Recently, however, they removed the non-religious exemption, so that the only way you could get out of having your kid vaccinated was for religious reasons. And the moment they did that – wouldn’t you know it – the number of Vermonters who had gotten religion suddenly jumped more than sevenfold, and many people rightly began wondering whether this was really about religion in the first place.

It’s almost as if, in many peoples’ minds saying that something is based on your religion is supposed to give it automatic credence – automatic immunity from all logic and ethical obligations. Because it’s your religion, you have the right to imperil me? Because it’s your religion you have the right to delay our return as a society to normal life? Because it’s your religion, you have the right to infect me with your viruses? To all of these questions I say no, and I add a request that you please stop making these arguments because they all give religion a very bad name.

Look, we can disagree about a lot with those who adhere to other religions. We can agree to disagree about what day of the week the Sabbath should be, and whether belief or deeds are most important, or even about whether the messiah has come yet. I do it all the time in my interfaith work, and I love it. But this doesn’t mean that we should give automatically give credence to every single religious view. As a teacher of mine once said, we should be open minded, but not so open minded that our brains fall out. Even in Judaism, while we don’t expect non-Jews to agree with everything, there are certain religious obligations that our tradition says apply to all people – Jews and non-Jews alike. These are the “Noachide Laws,” the seven commandments given to Noah and his descendants – to all of us, in other words. You’re not allowed to murder; there must be a community-wide system of justice; you can’t be cruel to animals. There are a few others, too. The point is that, even as we disagree, Judaism teaches that there is fundamental code of human decency to which we should hold all people accountable. And if their religion teaches otherwise – that gratuitous bloodshed is OK, for example, or that injustice is permissible, or that incest should be allowed – then their religion is wrong.

This is particularly important at a time such as this. When people argue that their religion allows practices that endanger us, when people suggest that God wants them to prioritize their own freedoms over the safety of others, when people describe life-saving vaccines as impure and unholy – then we should respond without hesitation that they and their religions are wrong.

Let me mince no words. Any religion that fails to prioritize human life is a bad religion. Any religion that encourages its adherents to unnecessarily imperil others’ health and safety is a bad religion. And any religion that demands its adherents check their brains at the door of their church, mosque, or synagogue is certainly a bad religion, too. We rightly tend to be wary of using such language, but if we can’t ever use it, then we might as well throw away the central teachings of our own Jewish traditions. If every religious idea is of equal value, then none of them are worth a damn to begin with.

So observe Shabbat on Tuesday, for all I care – if you don’t choose life, then your religion has no part in contemporary public discourse. Celebrate National Cucumber Day as your most solemn religious holiday if you want, but if your religion advocates policies that unnecessarily endanger people’s lives and livelihoods, then please don’t sully my public square with your destructive religious ideas. And if, in the name of your religion, you are going to reject science, reject medicine, and reject the great achievements and innovations of the human mind, then please know that I and people like me will oppose the imposition of your religious will however we possibly can. As a Jew who takes my Judaism seriously, I have no other choice.

Finally, most of us know people who refuse to mask or get vaccinated. What are we supposed to do in response? How can we talk to these people…especially since they so often seem to speak such a different language from the rest of us?

Well, for starters, to persuade them, I would not suggest that you share this sermon with them. Take it from me, the whole “bad religion” thing, the whole “check your brain at the door” thing…they tend not to be very effective rhetorical tools with these people.

Instead, I would suggest that you approach these people with love rather than rhetoric – with patience and sensitivity rather than with argument, for even the most ironclad arguments tend not to do much good here.

Let’s remember that even if there are no good arguments against vaccinations and masking, there are reasons the opponents feel the way they do, and we need to strive to understand them. Many who are reluctant, hesitant or refusing to get vaccinated are members of minority cultural and ethnic groups who have deep seated mistrust of public institutions. Their distrust is destructive, of course, but understanding it and being sensitive to it can be among our most powerful tools to combat it. Others are part of the majority culture, but feel threatened for other reasons, and still others find support, friendship, and solidarity in the community of their fellow mask and vaccine resistors. For them, such support, friendship, and solidarity are gifts more precious than gold. Some people suffer from skewed thinking, prioritizing freedom and autonomy over our obligations to ourselves and one another.  For them, patient and respectful dialogue will be key.

It’s difficult, of course, because, if you’re like me, your initial reaction is sometimes to scream at these people or to wring these people’s necks rather than engage in patient dialogue. Those responses might feel good for a moment, but they’re not likely to do much good.

Instead, let’s take the lead from the Talmud as to how to conduct what it called a “machloket l’shem shamayim,” a disagreement for the sake of heaven. The Talmud’s model for this was the School of Hillel, the ancient sage whose students always argued with their arch-rivals, the School of Shammai. In almost every case, the final decisions about Jewish law went with Hillel’s arguments, not Shammai’s. Why? Because Hillel’s students were kind and gracious, and because they always made sure to understand Shammai’s views completely, even going so far as to teach those opposing views before their own.

In other words, they were gentle; they listened – carefully; they argued to learn, not to preach. And in so doing, they were disagreeable, but disagreeable in a holy manner, disagreeable in just the way that God wanted.

This doesn’t mean, of course, that we need to become doormats. Arguing against and opposing bad ideas is a matter that is nothing short of life and death these days. And it’s imperative that we advocate for safety on behalf of all of our public institutions.

But with individuals, we need a kinder strategy. Let’s approach these people gently, and with open ears, minds, and hearts. Let’s approach them with love.  It’s unlikely to bring sudden change, it might not bring change at all, and whatever impact you do have will likely take a lot of time and energy.  But they too are children of God, they too have much to teach, and even though they are mistaken, demonizing them won’t achieve a thing – only humanizing them will.

It has been a hell of a year. And just when we thought things were about to get better, they got worse again. We can fix this, my friends – the virus is strong, but we can be stronger, and overcoming it will demand that we all do our parts. It is a herculean task, but I have faith that we can succeed. To do so, let’s cover our faces and get those shots, let’s resist the exploitation of God’s name for unholy purposes. Let’s thank our health care workers rather than make their lives more difficult, and let’s argue with love and respect.

On this day of awe and turning, we dare not abdicate these sacred responsibilities.

Shanah Tovah