The Great Principle of Torah

Kol Nidre Sermon, September 24, 2023
By Rabbi Mark Glickman

In one of the Talmud’s most famous stories, a non-Jewish man goes up to the great Rabbi Shammai and says, “Convert me to Judaism on the condition that you teach me the entire Torah while standing on one foot.” Shammai presumably muttered under his breath something to the effect of “I can’t teach you the whole Torah while standing on one foot,” and Shammai pushed him away with a builder’s tool that he was holding.

The non-Jew then approached Shammai’s colleague, Rabbi Hillel, and asked him the same question. “Convert me to Judaism on the condition that you teach me the entire Torah while standing on one foot.” Hillel’s response was different. Hillel converted the man, and then said,

“What is hateful to you, do not do to your neighbor. That is the entire Torah. The rest is commentary. Now go and study.”

Hillel’s response is as profound as it is simple. The Golden Rule – or at least Judaism’s version of it – is the Torah. And everything else – all the stories, the rituals, the social laws, and all the rest – is simply a commentary on this verse.

Many people who study this passage forget the second part of what Hillel said – the “go and study part” – but that part is just as important as the first part, because figuring out how to keep that Golden Rule can be very complicated.

Nonetheless, Hillel argued that the entire Torah can be boiled down to that single ethical principle, a principle that could easily be taught to a curious student while standing on one foot, and that Judaism’s essential teaching is all based on not doing to others what we wouldn’t want others to do to us.

Jump ahead 2000 years. My friend and colleague, Rabbi Marla Subeck-Spanjer, tells the story about how, as a young, single rabbi, she took a position at a small congregation in Winston-Salem, North Carolina. Shortly after she arrived, she broke her ankle in several places and had to move around on crutches with her leg all bandaged up. One day, she went to a community meeting of some sort, where she got a name tag, saying “Hello, my name is Rabbi Subeck.” After the meeting, having forgotten to take off the name tag, she crutched her way into a store across the street from her temple to do an errand. As the then Rabbi Subeck stood at the counter, tottering on her one working foot and two crutches, the storekeeper, looked at her nametag and said, “Oh, you’re a rabbi? I’ve always wondered about Judaism. Tell me all about it.”

There she was, in Winston-Salem, North Carolina, being asked to tell a non-Jew all there was to know about Judaism while standing on one foot. “The worst part about it,” she told me later, “was that there was nobody there I could laugh about it with!”

Laughter aside, the question that the non-Jewish interrogator from the Talmud posed to these hopping rabbis is an important one. What, when it comes right down to it, is Judaism all about? We know, of course, some of the tangential things that Judaism is all about. It’s about kugel and knishes, bagels and bialys, synagogues and federations, Shabbat and Yom Kippur, and other holidays too numerous to list. It’s about that indescribable connection we sometimes feel with other Jews. It’s about study and Tikkun Olam, wonderful music, and it’s about responding to every mention of Israel in the media with an impressed “Oh, wow,” a pained “Oy vey,” and usually some combination of the two. It’s about what in Yiddish we call Yiddishkeit – Jewishness – in all of its many and various dimensions.

But what is it essentially? What is it at its core? Hillel gave one answer, and it’s an important one. Tonight, I’d like to add a couple of other answers that other sages from our tradition provided, each with wisdom of its own.

One of those answers comes from the great Rabbi Akiva. To the best of our knowledge, Rabbi Akiva wasn’t ever approached by a non-Jew hopping on one foot and demanding answers about the Torah, but he did offer his own teaching on what he saw as Judaism’s core principle. The Midrash teaches us that Akiva said that the greatest principle of Torah is a simple, three-word teaching from Leviticus – the portion that we read on Yom Kippur: “V’ahahvta l’re’echa kamocha. Love your neighbor as yourself.”

It’s a simple phrase, but it too, like Hillel’s favorite, is rife with complexity. The Torah commands us to “love our neighbor.” How can God reasonably command us to love anything? God can command us to do all kinds of things, but to love? When my kids were little, I tried commanding them to love brussels sprouts. It didn’t get me very far at all. Later, I tried telling them to love the people whom I had chosen to be their spouses, and, to my dismay, I learned that things just don’t work like that anymore. Love is a feeling and feelings (if you’ll excuse the mixed metaphor) have minds of their own. Love doesn’t happen on command; it’s far more spontaneous than that.

Plus, the Torah says that we should love our neighbor as ourselves. That’s odd. The Torah could have just said “Love your neighbor” and called it good. But it added this “as yourself” part. What if I don’t love myself very much? Does that mean I can be a jerk to my neighbor? And what if I show love to myself by letting myself eat pancakes three meals a day? Does this mean I should constantly feed pancakes to my neighbor, too? Probably not.

I don’t know for sure what God really meant by this commandment, and I don’t know for sure why Akiva chose it as the Torah’s core principle. But I have a feeling that it had something to do with Judaism’s constant insistence that we look beyond ourselves. Judaism refuses to let us get stuck on what’s inside us, and instead always demands that we translate our inside feeling into outside action. In Judaism, it’s not good enough to think about lighting Shabbat candles, you actually have to light them. It’s not good enough to feel compassion for the suffering of other people, though that’s important. Our compassion only counts when we translate it into action – visiting the sick, sharing with the poor, helping the fallen stand up. Outside things.

Telling us to love our neighbors as ourselves, I think, is a command to take what we know on the inside and cast it outward. You know yourself pretty well (even though your spouse or your therapist might know you better), and, Sigmund Freud notwithstanding, on a day-to-day level, you’re probably pretty tuned in to who you are what you are, and why you do most of the things you do. It’s unlikely that anybody understands your complexity better than you do, and sensitivity to the fullness of one’s self is the beginning of love.

But loving yourself is only the beginning. Self-love only counts when we externalize it when we use it to propel us to love others who are beyond the boundaries of the self

You have dreams, and so do your neighbors. You struggle to find your way, so do your neighbors. You fall short sometimes – sometimes for a good reason, and always for some reason. The same is true of your neighbors. There are times when you feel joy, and times when you suffer, and times when you’re baffled, and times when you don’t want to think about any of it and just want to watch Netflix instead. The same is true of each and every human being. And as a human being, you are worthy of love even when you don’t think you merit it. So is everyone else. So love your neighbor, for just like you, they too are magnificent if flawed human beings.

So now we have two takes on what the most central teaching of our tradition is – one that calls upon us to treat our neighbors the way we want to be treated and another that calls upon us to love them. A third answer to this question comes from another of our ancient sages. In the very same Midrashic passage telling us what Akiva felt was the most important passage in the Torah, Akiva’s colleague, Ben Azzai, disagrees, and instead weighs in with his own suggestion.

Even greater than the command to love our neighbors as ourselves is a seemingly throwaway line from the beginning of the fifth chapter of Genesis: “This is the book of the generations of Adam.”

Whaaat? In the Torah, this line seems, as I said, like a throwaway – a simple introduction to the text’s account of Adam and Eve’s genealogy after Cain and Abel. But Ben Azzai sees this commandment as even more central, more important, more profound than the commandment to love our neighbors.

Why? Maybe it’s because this little line might be trying to tell us what the Torah, and what Judaism as a whole, is really about. Many people see the Torah as a story that is ultimately about Jews and Jews only. Ben Azzai seems to reject this perspective. Torah is a story for Jews, but it is the story. And for Jews, the story is the story of humanity – a story that includes us but is also much, much bigger. Torah is the story of the generations of Adam, the first human being; not of Abraham, the first Jew. And when we focus on our own story to the exclusion of the story of others, we betray the meaning of what it means to be a Jew. Being a Jew isn’t just about making sure Jews do well, Ben Azzai is saying, it’s about making sure we all do well. It’s about making sure that all children of Adam – Jews and non-Jews alike – come to be able to enjoy God’s blessings.

An Orthodox rabbi in a community where I used to live once refused to participate in a community-wide anti-hunger campaign, arguing that, the problem with the proposed campaign was that it aimed to feed all hungry people, not just Jews, and Jews need to worry about feeding our own hungry people first. To him I respond, “This is the book of the generations of Adam.”

Last February, a Palestinian gunman murdered two Israeli settlers in the West Bank town of Huwara. In response, hundreds of Israeli settlers attacked the town, burning up to 200 buildings to the ground and killing at least one Palestinian. Rather than criticizing the continued violence, Israeli Finance Minister Bezalel Smotrich argued that the village of Huwara needs to be wiped out. To him I respond, “This is the book of the generations of Adam.”

There are those who criticize Reform Judaism for having universalist concerns about the suffering of non-Jews as well as concerns about the suffering of Jews. Here, my response and the response of us all should be clear. “This is the book of the generations of Adam.”

Three ancient sages. Three suggestions as to what is Judaism’s most central teaching. Here, as in most places, these rabbis disagree with one another, and yet, somehow, their suggestions all seem to echo the same theme. Look beyond yourself. See the humanity of others. Treat people with kindness whenever you can, because you as a human being know how important it is.

I think that each of these rabbis in his own way was trying to teach this insight. They seem to be telling us that God is trying to get this point across. Yes, life is hard, but remember that it’s hard for others too, so be compassionate. Fight if you must, but never forget the humanity of your opponent, and always strive to make the world more humane.

Transcend yourself for something greater. Transcend yourself for a better world. Transcend yourself, so others can do the same. Transcend yourself, to make the world the way it can be.

What is Judaism? How can we boil it down to something we can teach while standing on one foot? Maybe this is it. Be kind. Be just. Look beyond yourself. For when you do, you can help make this world the way it’s supposed to be for us all. This, perhaps, is truly what Judaism is all about.

Shanah Tovah.

Truth, Knowledge, and Hope: Jewish Responses to a Warming World

Rosh Hashanah Morning Sermon, September 16, 2023
By Rabbi Mark Glickman

In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth. And God said, “Let there be light,” and there was light. Then God created matter of all kinds – the land and the seas, the plants and the animals, human beings, male and female, the sun and moon and stars to shine on them all. God put everything in its place, giving us room to grow, and the rest of the world space to teem with life and activity. Then God saw all that had been made and, behold, it was very good.

Then God took a break, and the rest…is history.

The Torah tells us that God put us into the world to have dominion over it – to enjoy it – but also to take care of it, to till and to tend this God-given garden called Earth. And the story of human history is, in many ways, the story of our increased ability to do the former, and our decreasing commitment to do the latter. We humans have become very adept in our ability to exploit the Earth. We build cities whose skylines grow taller by the year; we move ourselves and our stuff from place to place with a speed that would have been unimaginable to most human beings throughout history; we remove plants and minerals from the earth, creating toys and machines and enormous structures too numerous and too great to describe in words.

It’s amazing what we can do – we’ve responded to that divine call to rule the world with great success. But along the way, we seem to be forgetting that second command: to care for the Earth, to till the garden, and to tend it.

And if you doubt me, I present to you as evidence this past summer. Do you remember summertime this year? It was hot! It was really hot. And, as I remind my friends and family in the United States, it was hot even up here in Calgary, and this is where some people move to avoid the heat.

Of course, wasn’t just hot here. Worldwide, this was the hottest summer on record – ever! And with every tank of gas, our cars burn, and with every smokestack spewing pollutants into the air, and with every forest we cut down for fuel, paper, or housing, the problem gets worse. Indeed, there is widespread scientific consensus that the world is getting hotter, that the change is caused by people, and that if we don’t do something about it soon, it’s going to get worse, and the results will be utterly catastrophic.

As you know, there is a lot of science out there on the subject of climate change.  And while I’m certainly no scientist and I don’t want us to get lost in a sea of facts, a quick glance into the scientific literature here is important. Since preindustrial times, average global temperatures have risen by more than 2 degrees Celsius, and we’re on track toward a 6-degree temperature change by the end of the century. That means that the lovely 22-degree summer days that you remember from your childhood will be 28-degree days for our descendants.

And the results of such change are going to influence us all – they already have. At current rates of change, glaciers, and polar ice will melt, causing sea level rises bound to wipe out beachfront communities and low-lying island nations. Equatorial countries will become unlivable, and entire populations will be displaced as people need to move to higher and cooler places. Already, heat waves since the 1990s are estimated to have cost the global economy more than $21.7 trillion CDN. The warming climate is already wreaking havoc on animal populations, as many species find themselves living in surroundings for which their evolution has left them unprepared. Long Island Sound doesn’t have lobsters like it used to – the water is too hot for them. Similarly, Atlantic cod populations are moving north at a rate of 100 miles per decade. Tree populations are becoming uprooted, too, with white spruce moving north at a rate of 60 miles per decade. Sharks are moving further North, and you’ve probably seen the footage of starving polar bears looking for ice floes from which they can hunt for seals.

By far, the most lethal animal to us humans is the mosquito, and now disease-carrying mosquitos live in places that used to be too cold for them. That’s dangerous. By 2080, 5 billion people – sixty percent of all human beings – will live in areas where they can contract the illnesses that these insects spread. In Mexico, mosquito-borne viruses such as dengue fever, zika, and yellow fever used to only attack people who lived in the lowlands. Now, those viruses are moving into Mexico City, one of the largest metropolises in the world.

As the world heats up, air conditioners help a lot of us, but only those of us who can afford them. And, of course, any time we turn on the AC in our cars or in our homes, that machinery adds more pollutants to the air, and we only exacerbate the problem. And while AC units do a good job of cooling the homes of the wealthy, they also spit heat out into the environment. In leafy suburbs, that’s not much of a problem, at least not directly, but studies have shown that air conditioning actually increases outdoor temperatures in large cities for people who can’t afford their own units. Air conditioning, therefore, is simply a transfer of heat from the rich to the poor. It taxes our power systems, it leads to brown-outs and blackouts. Last year, Qatar air-conditioned its open-air stadiums for the 2022 World Cup. Shouldn’t that concern us?

And then there are the fires. I’ve seen this problem grow worse even during my short seven years here in Calgary. As our forests get hotter, they get drier, and when they get drier they become tinderboxes. Then, all it takes is a bolt of lightning or a stray spark, and they become infernos. Remember the Fort McMurray fire? When it happened, I hadn’t even arrived here yet, but I certainly heard about it in the States. It was devastating. Remember Lytton? It burned in minutes – two lives were lost, hundreds of homes turned to ash, and thousands of people had to flee. And there’s Maui, and there’s Australia, and there’s the smoke we saw here day after day after day during the summer. Each smoky view obliterating the sun and sky should remind us of the consequences of our environmental negligence.

I could continue in this vein, but you get the idea.

As your rabbi, I have a few things to say about this.

First, please, take science seriously. There are strong forces today and many, many dollars that are being devoted to minimizing the threat of climate change, and it is incumbent upon us all to see through the smoky smokescreens they create.

I say this not just as a political plea, but as a Jewish one. Our people has always been committed to the truth – to study, and learning. And through the ages, we’ve honored and respected experts. “The world stands on three things,” Rabban Gamliel said many centuries ago, “on justice, on truth, and on peace.” The Torah describes God as “gracious and abundant in love and truth.” And perhaps most explicitly, the Rabbis taught that “In an argument that’s for the sake of heaven, the desired end is truth.”

Let’s embrace that as we look at the current environmental catastrophe for what it is. Let’s never avoid this truth, even though it’s scary and troubling. Let’s be like the great 12th-century sage, Maimonides, who only moonlighted as a sage back then. His day job was as a physician – as a scientist. He was deeply pious, but when an uncomfortable scientific truth-challenged his religion, he didn’t reject that truth, he reconciled it with what he already knew. Scientific truth doesn’t threaten us, it enriches us. This has always been the Jewish way, and we dare not forget it now as the fires burn and the days grow hotter.

And here I need to add something that I say with great love for this wonderful community in which I live: I never thought I would have to say something like this. I never thought that I would have to plead with a community of educated, intelligent Jews to take science seriously. But here in Calgary, I have encountered many people – good people, intelligent people, articulate observers of the world, some of them Jews, some of them even members of our own congregation – who want to minimize the risk that climate change poses. They see such concerns as liberal hokum, woke overreactions, and left-wing political propaganda.

We can understand why. Oil and gas are important to us here in Alberta. They’re our bread and butter. We depend on it. Some people butter their bread with butter; we Albertans butter ours with tar sands. Some people – yes, some people here in this room – poo-poo the science because it’s hard to see these individual events as part of a bigger problem, or because of a general mistrust of institutions and experts that seems to be spreading these days. Such obliviousness is a luxury we can’t afford, and it’s also a betrayal of our Jewish commitment to truth and to tending the garden.

Second, let’s be ready for the fact that life is going to need to change for us. That change will be real, it will be significant, and it’s going to affect our daily lives. This situation calls upon us to engage in the sacred work of Tikkun Olam, repairing our broken world. But Tikkun, repair, doesn’t come easy. It is work for us human beings – hard work. We’re already seeing some of it. Cars are becoming more efficient, regulations are sometimes growing stronger. We recycle, we compost, and we protect our world where we can. Some people refrain from using disposable cutlery; others walk to work; still, others buy energy-efficient appliances. Here at Temple, if everything goes according to plan, we’ll soon be getting solar panels on our roof, and we’ll be one of the first religious institutions in Calgary to do so.  This should make us proud (and we should thank our Environment Committee for making this happen).

Each of these steps is wonderful and holy work, because these days, protecting our world is one of the most important mitzvot we can do. But of course, each of these steps is a drop in the bucket, and none is anywhere near enough given the changes that we need to make. Protecting our world now demands worldwide, systemic change. It would be great if Canada stopped polluting the air, but if, say, India and China continue doing so, we’ll eventually choke on the fumes ourselves.

Fixing this problem will demand dramatic changes to life as we know it – and that’s particularly true for those of us who enjoy the privileges of Western life. I don’t know what those changes going to look like. Maybe it will mean warmer homes in the summertime, maybe fewer airplane rides, maybe we’ll need to stop using disposable plates and bottles and cans. Maybe we’ll need to move away from sprawling suburbs and back into more energy-efficient cities. Whatever it is, be prepared for change – and be prepared for the kind of change that we’re going to feel.

However it ends up looking, we must remember that Tikkun Olam – fixing our world – is essentially an embrace of and an understanding of the need for change. Even and especially when it affects our own lives.

And finally, let’s remember the words of the Psalmist: “Those who sow in tears, will reap in joy.” These are hard and frightening times for us and for all humanity. They will demand work, and sacrifice from us all. But we dare not despair. There is growing awareness of what we need, and we must embrace our vision of a better world:  A world of human warmth rather than environmental heat. A world of peace, justice, and truth, rather than one of propaganda and lies. A world in which each human being can have domain over the world while also tilling and tending the garden.

That, my friends, will take work, but when we do it, this new year and every new year will be good and sweet not only for us but for all humanity.

Shanah Tovah.

Shalom on the Shelf

Erev Rosh Hashanah Sermon, September 15, 2023
By Rabbi Mark Glickman

Tonight, here on the threshold of a new year, we have a lot to celebrate, but our world, as you know, is rife with conflict.  There is a war in Ukraine, agonizing political unrest in Israel, violence on our own streets here in Calgary, and growing discord wherever we turn.  Everything seems so difficult these days, everything is a battle. Will the fighting ever end?

I’m not sure that it will, but for some perspective on our current conflicts, I would like us to turn back to our history for a few minutes. And as we do, I’d like to introduce you tonight to two men, and a book. Maybe, as we meet these men, and take a look at the book, we can gain at least a little perspective.

The first man I’d like you to meet is a person named David Philipson.

Rabbi David Philipson

David Philipson was the youngest of the very first group of four Reform rabbis ordained in the United States. Born to German parents in a small town in Indiana in 1862, in his early teens Philipson moved to Cincinnati, Ohio to attend high school and to become a student at the Hebrew Union College, the newly-created rabbinical seminary in that city.  In 1883, HUC ordained its first class of rabbis – four young men, the youngest of whom was Rabbi Philipson.

When Rabbi Philipson and his three classmates were ordained, there was a huge banquet held in Cincinnati to celebrate the event. The graduation banquet was a gala affair, and anyone who was anybody – both in American Jewry, and in the general non-Jewish Cincinnati community – attended it, fully decked out in their gilded age clothing: gowns, top hats, and black ties and tails, and all the rest.

That banquet is worthy of a sermon in and of itself, but in brief, you need to remember that these were the early days of Reform Judaism. Reform Judaism was instituting revolutionary changes in Jewish life. Many people in America and Western Europe embraced these changes, but there were some who were concerned that it was changing too much and too fast. And that’s why the banquet was so scandalous. We still have the menu from that dinner, and you can see here why it caused such a fuss.

The Treyfe Banquet Menu

The appetizer (if you can make it out): little neck clams. The next course: filet of beef with soft-shell crabs and shrimp salad. And so the dinner proceeded. Sure enough, according to Rabbi Philipson’s recollections from later in his life, the people who were concerned about the speed of change in this newfangled thing called Reform Judaism stood up, stormed out, and – wouldn’t you know it – went off and started Conservative Judaism. In a sense, Conservative Judaism was born at the celebration of the ordination of four young men as Reform rabbis, one of whom was David Philipson.

Rabbi Philipson’s first pulpit was in Baltimore, MD. He earned a doctorate at Johns Hopkins University and drew acclaim as a leader in interfaith relations. During his tenure in Baltimore, Philipson became a leader in the American Reform rabbinate and was instrumental in composing the first platform of the Reform movement – a document called the Pittsburgh Platform of Reform Judaism. This statement, approved by the Reform Rabbinate in 1885, described our founding fathers’ understanding of what Reform Judaism stands for. It suggests that science and history aren’t antagonistic to our religion, but rather that they contribute to it…which was at the time, a revolutionary idea. It says that only the moral laws of Judaism are binding upon us today, not the ritual ones. It rejects Zionism, suggesting that we’re no longer a nation, but a religious community. It dismisses the ideas of heaven, hell, and the afterlife as foreign to Judaism, and it says that practices such as keeping kosher or wearing distinctive clothing are “apt rather to obstruct than to further modern spiritual elevation.”

How Reform has changed since then! What these rabbis described in the Pittsburgh Platform is what we now call Classical Reform Judaism. It was the Judaism of cavernous temples, robed choirs, and elevated rabbinic oratory. It was majestic, uplifting, and inspiring, just as its adherents felt a modern religion should be. And Rabbi David Philipson was one of its greatest American architects.

After five years in Baltimore, Rabbi Philipson moved back to Cincinnati, where he became rabbi of Bene Israel, now called Rockdale Temple, serving at that congregation for 61 years, until his death in 1949. There, he continued his interfaith work, battled corruption in the local city government, and fought antisemitism wherever he could. He edited the Reform movement’s Union Prayerbook; he wrote a comprehensive history of the Reform movement, which was still in use as recently as my own stint in rabbinical school. And as vehement he was in his opposition to antisemitism, he was also an anti-Zionist. To him, Judaism was a religion; America was his nation. “No man,” he wrote, “can be a member of two nationalities.” In 1897, he and his allies issued a statement in response to the first Zionist Congress in Basel asserting that “America is our Zion,” not the land of Israel.

David Philipson Bookplate

My uncle, Rabbi Robert Marx, studied with Rabbi Philipson shortly before Philipson’s death in the late 1940s and was able to get a few books from Philipson’s library after he died, and Philipson’s bookplate says it all.

It shows two flags – the American flag, and a Jewish flag. The American one is in front. It also shows two statues, one of Moses, and the other of George Washington. Moses is slightly behind that first American president, looking respectfully on him from the rear.

David Philipson wrote many books, taught at the Hebrew Union College, he served as president of the Central Conference of American Rabbis. Not surprisingly, he was widely known as the “Dean of the American Rabbinate.”

The other man I’d like you to meet tonight was another giant of the 20th-century Reform rabbinate – Rabbi Stephen Wise.

Rabbi Stephen Wise

Born in Budapest in 1874, Wise migrated to New York with his family as a child, but returned to Europe as a young man, receiving his rabbinic ordination and a doctorate in Vienna in 1893. He served a pulpit in New York and another in Portland Oregon before coming back to New York and founding “The Free Synagogue,” today known as the “Stephen Wise Free Synagogue.” (There were no dues; everyone paid what they could; don’t worry we’re not going to do that here.) For many years, the congregation didn’t have a building, and met instead for their weekly worship at – where else? – Carnegie Hall.

And from early on, Rabbi Stephen Wise was a colossus. In 1909, he became a founding member of the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People – the NAACP. In 1915, he helped found the American Committee on Armenian Atrocities. He fought for the rights of coal miners during labor disputes in the 1920s, speaking out for the workers even though many mine owners those workers opposed belonged to his own congregation.

In the early 1940s, Wise was one of the first American Jewish leaders to become aware of Nazi atrocities against Jews and fought with all he had on behalf of European Jewry. He spoke widely to draw attention to their plight, he traveled to Washington DC frequently to meet at the White House with his “friend Franklin” – Franklin Delano Roosevelt – and advocate for American support on their behalf, and in 1942 Wise convened tens of thousands of people at a rally at Madison Square Gardens to draw attention to their cause.

Stephen Wise was a master orator, speaking in the stentorian tones of speakers trained to address audiences before the era of electronic amplification. Here, in one of the few films available of him, from a newsreel about the Kristallnacht pogrom in Germany in 1938, you can get a sense of what he was like.

And unlike David Philipson, Stephen Wise was an ardent Zionist. He was the president of the Zionist Organization of America, he was Chairman of the United Israel Appeal, he founded and was president of the World Jewish Congress, which supported Zionism however it could.

As I mentioned, early Reform was largely opposed to Zionism, but Wise fought with all his might for the Reform movement to support the creation of a Jewish state. And realizing that the Reform movement’s seminary in Cincinnati, the Hebrew Union College, taught rabbinic students from its anti-Zionist perspective, Wise went and started his own seminary – the Jewish Institute of Religion, in New York. Later, after Wise’s death, most Reform Jews embraced Zionism, and the two seminaries merged, adopting a new mouthful of a name befitting its history – The Hebrew Union College – Jewish Institute of Religion.

Rabbi Stephen S. Wise died in 1949, and just a couple of months later, so did Rabbi David Philipson.

By this time, the State of Israel had come into being, and, as I said, the Reform Movement had overwhelmingly adopted it, ending up in favor of the Zionist perspective of Stephen Wise, and against the anti-Zionism of David Philipson.

And now for the book, I’d like to show you.

I bought it online several months ago. It’s called The Jew in English Fiction, it was published in 1889, and it was written by David Philipson. As I mentioned, Philipson wrote several books, but this one was his first. When it came out, he had just begun serving his congregation in Cincinnati, and he was 27 years old.

Hebrew Union College Library Stamp

This particular copy bears the stamps of the library at the Hebrew Union College, of which he was one of the first ordinees, and where he taught rabbinic students later in his career.

It’s safe to say that in some ways this book is subtly imbued with anti-Zionist ferment. Its author was a lifelong anti-Zionist. Its owner, the Hebrew Union College, was, at the time of its publication and for a couple of decades afterward, an anti-Zionist institution. And its content describes the significance of Jewish life not in the land of Israel, but in England – particularly in British literature. The book doesn’t explicitly address the question of a Jewish state, but it does speak of the richness of diaspora Jewry, and you can almost feel the anti-Zionism oozing out from between its pages.

Examining the book further, however, you realize that the Hebrew Union College was probably its second owner, because, on the inside front cover, you can find the bookplate of its first owner. Who owned this book first? You can see it here:

Rabbi Stephen Wise Book Plate

Ex Libris (from the library of) Stephen S. Wise. This was Stephen Wise’s personal copy of The Jew in English Fiction.

Ideologically speaking, Stephen S. Wise and David Philipson were at each other’s throats over the Zionism issue for most of their careers. Philipson was practically part of the woodwork at HUC, and Wise went so far as to open a rival seminary. During the first decades of the 20th century, as Zionism grew in strength, the arguments over the idea raged throughout our Reform movement…and these two titans were each at the helm of the opposing sides of the battle. It was a huge controversy. Philipson probably could have gotten a job at one of the big New York congregations, but a city as small as New York wouldn’t have been nearly big enough to hold these two giants!

In time, as we’ve noted, the controversy abated, and my guess is that after Wise’s death, and after the two seminaries merged, parts of his library were donated to HUC-JIR, and this volume eventually made its way to Cincinnati.

Given the nature of the argument and the size of the personalities of these two men, you would think that there would still be sparks flying from this little volume. If New York wasn’t big enough to hold them, how could this book be? But you know what? No sparks fly from these pages. Instead, the book just sits quietly on my shelf, snug and safe alongside hundreds of others. The arguments of yesteryear no longer rage between these two men – at least not like they did – and in fact, those controversies are now so quiet that it took me several minutes tonight even to describe what they disagreed about.

“That is why I have always felt such deep attachment to libraries,” Elie Wiesel writes.  “Here, within these walls, there is peace. The old quarrels subside…. All these writers and teachers, all these thinkers and lawmakers who engaged in disputations during their lifetime, now accept one another’s views with tolerance and serenity. Because of the books? Because of the silence. Here, words and silence are not in conflict—quite the contrary: they complete and enrich one another. Is it possible? In our tradition—it is.”

Our battles – they erupt with ferocity today, but later they grow quiet so quiet sometimes, that we need to remind ourselves what we were fighting about in the first place.

Remember your schoolyard fights from when you were a child? Many of them were over real hurts, and many – not all – seem almost quaint as we look back at them years afterward. The professional conflicts that we once fought so angrily? They have a way of calming down as they become distant memories. Not always, but often. Even divorced couples, who once fought with such untrammeled vengeance – over the years, the anger often subsides, leaving both parties able to be civil with one another. Even friendly.

My friends, in the year ahead, and in future years as well, you will certainly find yourself having an argument or two…and probably many more than that. And as important as these arguments might be, I invite you to look at them through the prism of this little book. In thirty years, or in fifty or one hundred, where will this conflict be then? What will the lasting effects of your argument be? I’m not saying that you should refrain from fighting – after all, in the days of Wise and Philipson, discussing the creation of a Jewish state was hugely important. I’m only suggesting a little humility – that you remember that however passionately you argue and however crucial your cause, someday, somehow, you and your opponents might end up snuggled together on the shelf of a rabbi in Calgary, Alberta.

The wars of yesterday become the skirmishes of today, and the skirmishes of today can become the fascinating footnotes of history tomorrow. Look what happened here. Two lions who once roared so loud now sit quietly together, and tonight we can learn from them both.

May this year be a year in which we all can transform memory into knowledge. Then it will be a good year, indeed.

Shanah Tovah.

How to Fear…Jewishly

Kol Nidre Sermon 2022/5783

By Rabbi Mark Glickman

It had taken several months for me to call Mike, but I liked him, and I missed him, and, frankly, I was kind of exasperated with him, so I finally decided to pick up the phone. We exchanged the usual pleasantries, and finally I got to the point. “Mike, we miss you around here,” I said. “What’s it going to take to get you to come back to services?”

“Rabbi, I’d love to come back,” Mike replied, “but I’m just not ready yet.”

“What do you mean, you’re ‘not ready’?”

I could hear him roll his eyes over the phone. Clearly, I wasn’t the first person with whom he’d had this discussion. “You know what I mean, rabbi. I’m still scared of this virus.”

I tried to be quiet, and I tried to be sensitive to his fears, but I think Mike could hear me roll my eyes, too. I caught myself, and instead tried to be kind and logical. “Look,” I said, “schools are open, workplaces are open, virus numbers are way down, you can wear a mask when you come. What more do you need?!”

“The virus numbers were up this week, rabbi!” In reality, they had ticked up lately, but they were way down from the peak. It was just enough to turn the truth into something messy. “And even if they weren’t up,” Mike continued, “I still don’t think I’d be ready to come back. Rabbi, I’m just so scared of getting sick.”

I could hear the fear in his voice. It was real. Before the pandemic, Mike had been so connected here – he came every week. But now, being in the physical presence of other human beings had become not something to look forward to, but something to dread. It was important that I be sensitive to that.

At the same time, I hoped he could hear me, too. For most of us, the virus had become far less dangerous than it once was. The world was reopening, and people were reconnecting. Sure, there was still a risk of getting sick, but there would always be risk, and our job now is not to avoid risk altogether, but to learn how to live with it. That’s because we need each other – we need to sit with each other, to see each other, to shake one another’s hands and maybe even to hug one another – it was important for us to be able to regather.

And that was precisely the problem. Temple had reopened, but many of the the seats remained empty during services (or at least many more than had been empty before the pandemic). Our community needs one another; we need our Mikes to come back, as well as our Judies and our Davids and our Sarahs and everyone else.

But Mike’s fear was real. And I cared about the guy. How could I be present with him, and also get him back to Temple?

Mike wasn’t alone in being afraid. And he’s far from the first person ever to feel that way. Fear, as you know, is an age-old human emotion. It dates back millennia, to the first person ever to watch their buddy get eaten by a lion. Sometimes, fear can be healthy, like when it inspires us to run away from large, man-eating cats. Fear can make us prudent. It can inspire us to get vaccines, and avoid dark alleys, and stop smoking. But fear, as we also know, can paralyze us. Some people are so scared of the unknown that they stay in soul-killing jobs rather than exploring newer and better paths. Others are afraid of germs, a phobia that, when severe, can be downright debilitating.

Personally, I’m terrified of snakes. And once, when we lived in Washington State, I was weeding around a shed we had in the backyard, when, suddenly, out slithered a garter snake that must have been…[hold arms wide] six inches long. And in response…well let’s just say that that was the last time I ever pulled a weed out from around that shed.

In Hebrew there are two words for fear – pachad and yir’ah – and I think that understanding them might help Mike and me come to a meeting of the minds.

The first of those two words – pachad – could also be translated as terror. It’s what you feel when you round the bend and find a growling bear waiting for you on the other side. It’s what soldiers feel when they’re surrounded by a vicious enemy and realize that the battle is lost. It’s what all those people in monster movies felt when running away at hyper-speed to avoid getting squashed by Godzilla.

Yir’ah, on the other hand, is different. Yir’ah also means fear, but’s it’s often translated as awe. And usually, it’s a good thing. A Jew, for example, is supposed to live life with a sense of yir’at shamayim – a fear of God, an awe of God, a feeling of veneration for God. Unlike, pachad, yir’ah isn’t terror. Instead, it’s wonder. It’s respect. It’s reverence. This is the kind of fear that reminds us that awful and awesome ultimately mean the same thing. When we feel yir’ah, we live with awe. Yir’ah doesn’t make us flee from lions; it makes us appreciate their beauty and majesty, instead. It doesn’t make us afraid of heights, it puts us in awe of them. It doesn’t make us fear things that go bump in the night, it makes us grateful for the mysteries enfolded in each night’s darkness. Yir’ah is the kind of fear that makes us feel small and large all at the same time.

Pachad and yir’ah – each is a type of fear, each is a genuinely human feeling, and each leads to radically different responses. Pachad paralyzes us, yir’ah inspires us. People feeling pachad for others become suspicious of them, and often demonize them; people feeling yir’ah for others appreciate them and feel compassion for them, even though those other people are so different and so puzzling…and sometimes because of it. Pachad makes us run; yir’ah makes us stop and think, with our hearts racing and our jaws agape in wonder. In the short term, pachad is essential, because can save our lives. In the long term, yir’ah is equally important, because can save our souls.

A neurologist might tell us that pachad comes from our amygdala – our inner brain, our lizard brain, whereas yir’ah comes from our cerebral cortex. I might suggest that yir’ah also comes from our heart – the source of our spirit – and that our ability to feel it is one of our most profoundly human traits.

For much of the pandemic, it was pachad that saved us. When it hit, we had to lock down, and we had to do it quick. And if we didn’t run away from the monster, it would have destroyed us. Of course, there were moments of yir’ah early on, too, as we reached out to others, and tried to show kindness from amidst the fear. Still, in the early days of a pandemic, it’s pachad that ultimately saved the day.

That day has come, and that day is gone. The pandemic still attacks, and it is still a threat, but it is no longer the threat that it once was. As a result, we have a little breathing room. We can determine how to be careful, and how to live with our fear. We can act out of a desire to preserve life, but also out of a desire to enrich it. We can move from pachad to yir’ah.

The great sage, Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel, perhaps said it best when he argued that fear is the anticipation of pain, whereas awe is hopeful and entails the anticipation of good. You’ve experienced both of these even during the pandemic. We all have. The virus terrified us, and to avoid letting it destroy us, we responded with caution and intelligence. Not to have done so would have made things horrible. And you’ve also seen goodness during these past few years. People reaching out in care and love; scientists doing amazing work to protect us; the transformation that can come from sitting quietly at home more than we can in normal times. These are good things, and when we respond with awe to difficulties, this is what we can experience.

To be clear, I’m not saying that we should throw all of our Covid concerns to the wind. What I am saying is that the time has come to respond to its threat not as if it was a lion waiting to pounce on us, but simply as an illness we can get if we’re not careful. It’s essential that we continue to take sensible precautions, but now we can take other factors into account, as well – our need to sit with others, the importance of community, the reality that life always entails risk, and a life fully lived doesn’t reject risk, but manages it, instead.

Mike, if you’re listening to my words tonight, I assume you’re doing so online. Wherever you are, I want you to know that we understand that you’re afraid, but we miss you. And we are incomplete without you. And we hope you come back soon, because without you sitting here, our community remains incomplete. My hope for you is that, with wisdom, courage, and every necessary precaution, you can transition from the necessary responses of pachad fear, to the reverent mode of awesome fear – yir’ah

These are complicated days, and they demand that we make difficult decisions. As we do, may we be motivated by the sanctity of human life, our need for human connection, and courage to do what we must despite the risks that those activities entail. And may the fear we all experience lead us to the safety we need to lay pachad aside and live with awe – yir’ah – for all that is good and holy in our magnificent world.

Shanah Tovah.

The Other Story Is-real, Too: On Learning from Other Canadians About the Jewish State

Rosh Hashanah Morning Sermon 2022/5783

By Rabbi Mark Glickman

I’ve spent a lot of time over the years thinking about Zionism and Israel. I took seminars on the topic as an undergraduate. I lived in Israel for two wonderful years during the 1980s, my rabbinical thesis was a biography of an anti-Zionist Reform rabbi who gained widespread notoriety during World War II, and who was still alive when I wrote about him. During the more-than-three decades of my rabbinate, I’ve spoken out about Israel-related issues, I’ve drawn criticism for my views, I’ve tried to comfort the communities I’ve served when Israel was under attack, I’ve sat through countless meetings with countless congregants struggling with Israel-related topics. Some of my discussions about that little country that occupies such a huge place in the Jewish heart have been frustrating, others have been uplifting. And they’ve all been spirited.

And then, six years ago, I came here to Calgary, and as I’ve noted from this bima before, here the conversations have been even more difficult than elsewhere. Here, when Israel comes up at a meeting, things can get…a little tense. Here, when I first suggested a congregational trip to Israel, one of the first questions from congregational leaders wasn’t “How many people do you think will attend?” but rather “Will we lose members over it?” Here, people either clam up over Israel perspectives with which they disagree, or they scream at those who disagree with them. “Rabbi,” people tell me, “I don’t feel safe sharing my views about Israel at Temple because everybody is so far to the left of me.” “Rabbi,” others say, “I don’t feel safe sharing my views about Israel at Temple because everybody is so far to the right of me.” “Rabbi, who does she think she is to say that about Israel. I can’t believe it!”

I’ve found it astonishing, actually, because I’ve served at a bunch of Jewish communities over the years, and never before have these issues taken on the heaviness that they have here at Temple B’nai Tikvah. Oh, don’t get me wrong. Israel discussions at other congregations have been difficult at times – plenty difficult – but never like they are here. My rabbinate has seen a couple of intifadas, growing settlements in the Occupied Territories, repeated conflicts in Gaza, the Rabin assassination, the Netanyahu administration, and much more. And believe it or not, there are Jews who disagree with other Jews about these topics. But here, the whole thing seems heavier, more intractable, more difficult to discuss in every which way.

And if you’ve been attending Days of Awe services for the past few years (or at least “attending” them), you know that I’ve been struggling to understand what makes these issues so much more difficult for us to discuss here than in other synagogue communities, and I’ve been encouraging you to engage and argue constructively about them rather than to lash out. I’ve had, to put it gently, limited success.

And so, I’ve continued to read, I’ve continued to listen, and I’ve continued to reflect on this issue, and just recently, I realized something I find fascinating about the way this issue plays out for us. It’s an insight that probably won’t serve as a magic pill to make these discussions easy anytime soon, but it’s one that may provide a helpful framework to guide us in that direction.

What I realized is that, unlike all of the congregations I served before coming here to Calgary, our congregation here in Calgary…is in Canada. And contrary to what I realized before moving here, Canada is different from the United States. And what’s more, Canadian Jewry – its people, its history, its perspectives – is different from American Jewry, too. And these differences are particularly important when it comes to our discussions about Israel.

Put most simply, Canadian Jews are collectively of two minds about Israel. We have two fundamentally conflicting perspectives on that little country along the eastern shore of the Mediterranean. And these conflicting views are so fundamentally at odds with one another that the people who hold them end up speaking entirely different languages about what’s going on in Israel. Our discussions over Israel end up tending not to be arguments, but rather cacophonies – as if they were vociferous onstage debates between two people who don’t speak one another’s language.

The first vision that many Canadians hold is a classical Zionist one. It argues that a Jewish state is important to help protect us from antisemitism. First articulated by early Zionists around the turn of the last century, it was the dream of Theodore Herzl and other founders of Zionist thought – to have a place where Jews could move to be safe, and live lives free of oppression, and openly as Jews. And in places such as Eastern Europe, not to mention others like Yemen and Damascus, such fears were real. When any day, your family could be expelled, tortured, or even killed in a pogrom simply because they were Jewish, the dream of having a secure national home for the Jewish people was a powerful dream indeed.

And this, of course, is why that dream of an independent homeland only became a practical reality in the wake of World War II. As the smoke cleared after the Holocaust, and the full extent of its horrible devastation became known, the world perceived as never before the need for a Jewish safe-haven. And in a world awash with needy Jewish refugees, the need was particularly acute.

This was a powerful dream. A dream of a people long subject to the whims of history finally returning to its ancient homeland, there to be reborn free and strong, to be actors in the world, not victims; proud, not downtrodden; self-determined, and never again as weak as before.

What’s more, it was a dream that was particularly important here in Canada, , because most Canadian Jew are descendants of Eastern European countries – places where, certainly during the 19th and 20th centuries, antisemitism was force both palpable and strong. Most Canadian Jews came having left behind relatives and communities and friends who fell prey to the Holocaust. And many others came here after the war, remembering all too well the vulnerability of life in Europe, and the unspeakably tragic loss that it allowed.

This, then, is the first form of Zionism – the classical one. It acknowledges the reality of antisemitism, and sees Israel as crucial in protecting our people from it.

But there’s another view, too. And that’s because, for us Canadians, particularly us out here in the west, the search for protection from antisemitism is far from the whole story. In fact, for many of us – even many of us here in this room – there is another story that has come to sit close to our hearts here, and even though this other story isn’t specifically Jewish, it moves us, and troubles us and inspires us in some ways just as powerfully as our own.

This other story I’m referring to is that of indigenous Canadians. Theirs, too, is a story of oppression and vulnerability. And theirs, too, is a painful one for anybody with even an ounce of compassion to take in.

Yes, for many of us in this part of the world, our defining moral issue is one that is far more local than the death camps of Europe. It’s the need we feel as Canadians to own up to the way we’ve treated the people who were living here when white settlers first arrived. I don’t need to recount that history for you – you probably know it better than I do. What’s important to note, however, is that the story is one of outsiders coming to a place where others had lived for many ages, taking over their land, quashing their culture, and oppressing them as human beings. New perspectives on the history of this country have raised our awareness of this story, as have the tragic recent discoveries of unmarked graves at residential schools, and other atrocities, too. If you have even a morsel of compassion, these stories can’t help but get under your skin.

And what’s important for our purposes here is that our sensitivity to the way we treat indigenous peoples can’t help but inform the view that many of us have of Israel. For many of us here, the story of Israel isn’t at root the story of a people returning to its land to rebuild its national life there. Instead, it’s the story of white people moving somewhere where none of them had lived before, and kicking brown people off the land where they had resided for centuries. In this sense, Zionism isn’t the story of Jewish national rebirth as much as it is the story of European colonization of innocent people…just as horrible as what happened here in Canada.

The classic, Zionist response to this, of course, would be to say, “Wait a minute! Who’s really indigenous in Israel? Jews were there long before Arabs were. If anybody in Israel is indigenous, it’s us, not the Palestinians.”

“Yeah,” would come the reply, “but that was in antiquity. Right or wrong, these people – the Palestinians – were living there for ages when Zionism arose, and now they’ve been disenfranchised.”

“Disenfranchised?” many Zionists respond. “Arabs can be citizens of Israel – they can vote. And the occupied territories were conquered in a war that the Arabs started.”

And thus, the discussion continues, rarely reaching any agreement, rarely achieving any insight.

My point is that one of the primary reasons Israel is so difficult for us to discuss is that, when we talk about it here in Canada, we’re really telling two different stories. One is inspirational and beautiful – the story of the national rebirth of our people like a phoenix out of the ashes of the Holocaust. And the other is the story of colonization and oppression of indigenous peoples just like what happened here.

Which is your Israel story? Is it a story that comes out of Auschwitz, or is it a story that comes out of Kamloops? There isn’t a right one or a wrong story, I don’t think, and in the end neither is more Jewish than the other. Yes, the Auschwitz version is more particular to our own people, but the Kamloops Israel story is Jewish, too – it calls upon us to recognize the divinity of all human beings, and to act toward them with care and compassion. What’s more Jewish than that?

Again, I ask you – which of these stories is yours? I would suggest that you to abandon the one that speaks to you most powerfully, but I would like to encourage you to see and validate that of the people with whom you disagree. You don’t need to embrace their views, but just see the kernels of truth that their story might hold. If, for you, Israel is an exciting story of a Jewish return to the land, maybe you could use a reminder that the rise of a Jewish nation in a land where others have dwelt for centuries is morally fraught and ethically dangerous, even if it is something we need. And if you see the Jewish return to the land of Israel as an act of colonialism that should make us as Canadian Jews feel ashamed, then maybe you can remember the joy of Jewish national rebirth that so many Jews feel after centuries of darkness – the joy of hearing Hebrew words being spoken and songs being sung once again on the streets of Jerusalem and other cities; of knowing that, there, the national calendar is a Jewish one, and the rhythms of time are Jewish for the first time in ages; of knowing that Israel provides an unparalleled opportunity for Jews to guide their own national history rather than forcing them to allow others to do it for them; and that finally, after centuries of vulnerability, there is now a safe haven for our people whenever they might need it.

Indeed, one of the hallmarks of civil society is the ability to hear other people’s stories, and to allow those stories to influence our view of the world. Those stories might distort the truth, but far more often than not, they can provide added insight.

Our community here in Western Canada is uniquely rich, and one of the factors that renders us rich is the unique set of stories that our members have brought here. Some have brought us immigrant stories – stories of people escaping hatred for the freedom of this great country. Others bring stories of our struggle to overcome collective responsibility for past misdeeds, as we strive to treat all Canadians with the respect that they deserve as human beings. And most of us bring some combination of these tales and many more as we constantly transform our view of our world as Jews and human beings.

This year, may we hear one another’s stories. May we learn from them. May we allow stories old and new to continue to guide us, to learn from one another, and to make us better each and every moment.

Shanah Tovah.

On the Virtue of Being Yourself

Erev Rosh Hashanah Sermon, 2022/5783

By Rabbi Mark Glickman

Our world pushes us to conform, to be the same as everyone else, to fit the mold, to toe the line, to fade away into camouflaged familiarity and similarity with those around us; to refrain from being red roses shining out from the green, but to be yellow dandelions, instead, just like all of the other dandelions around us.

That’s what the world tends to tell us these days. But about six months ago, in a crowded airport lounge teeming with other travelers just like me, I had an experience that reminded me what a disservice our world does to us when it says this.

Just over a week before, I had gotten a call from two members of our congregation, Elysa and Nathan Morin (I share their names with their permission). They had just had a baby – a healthy little boy they were going to name Finn – like Finkelman – and they were hoping I could officiate at his bris eight days later. I was delighted – this is a terrific couple, they were already great parents to Finn’s older sister, Avery, and hearing the news of their son’s birth was a real joy. I almost shouted my “Mazel Tov” into the phone.

Then I opened my calendar, and my heart sank. How could I have forgotten? “I’m at a conference in San Diego next week,” I told them. “And the day of the bris is the day I come home. There’s no way I can get back in time for the ceremony.” Brises, you see, have to be on the eighth day – even if the eighth day is Yom Kippur, its eighth-ness trumps everything.

I paused. “I’d be glad to try to find another rabbi who could officiate,” I continued. “Or, if you’d like, I suppose I could try to Zoom in from my layover.”

“Rabbi Glickman,” they said, “we don’t want another rabbi there – we want you. If you could Zoom in, that would be great!”

“OK…if that’s what you want,” I said. Secretly, I was overjoyed that I’d be able to be there…and, I’ll admit, flattered that they wanted me to participate as much as they did.

My layover that day was at the Denver airport. No problem, I thought to myself, I’ll just find a quiet place to sit…at the Denver International Airport…and I’ll officiate at the bris over my computer from there. My layover was six hours long, so I figured I wouldn’t have a problem.

I walked off the plane after my San-Diego-to-Denver flight, and stepped into a madhouse. The Denver airport was mobbed. It was as if someone had uncorked the drain of the post-Covid travel delay tank over our heads, and the entire world was gushing out to take a flight that day, every one of which, from the looks of things, went through Denver. It was an international mass of tightly packed humanity. My plan had been to find a quiet place to sit, but I realized that finding a quiet place was going to be impossible. In fact, finding any place to sit wasn’t going to be easy. What was I going to do?

For a time, I wandered the concourse – a roaming, roving, rabbi in search of a nook or a cranny from which to conduct this bris, but every nook and cranny was occupied. It baffled me that the architects who designed that airport could be so completely oblivious to the needs of rabbis doing Zoom brises!

I began to think creatively. Maybe I could see if the nice woman on the loudspeaker could politely ask people to quiet down for a couple of minutes. Or maybe I could Uber out to a Starbucks in the Denver suburbs somewhere. Maybe I could ask an airport administrator to borrow their office. “You see…there’s this ceremony in Judaism…it involves a little surgery…I need to Zoom in….” No, none of these ideas was going to work.

But then I saw it. The answer to my problem. A gleaming, well lit, oaken portal to success, right there in the middle of Concourse C. Why hadn’t I thought of it before. The United Club! It would be quieter, more comfortable, and with six hours to kill, I could get some food and drinks, to boot.

I bought a one-day pass, and was ushered into the quiet – or at least quieter – confines of the airport lounge. There, I got a snack, read my book for a little while, and when the time for the bris drew near, I found a glass of wine that could do a passable job as a Kiddush cup, and sat myself down at a desk in the office section of the lounge.

There were lots of other desks there – rows of them, with people sitting on either side of me and with their backs to me across the aisle. I heard them talking on their phones; I heard them clacking away at the keyboards of their computers. From my left, I heard a man with a deep voice say, “Is this Mrs. Pearson…Yes, this is Jim calling, from FreeFlow Plumbing. You had a question about your drain?”

Then, from the other direction, I heard, “Hey, Vern, there’s two seats over here.” “I’m comin’, Hank, I’m comin’!” was the reply, and two big, scruffy guys made their way to the desks behind me.

I plopped a kippah onto the top of my head, set the glass of wine next to my computer, opened the screen, and booted up Zoom. Within a moment, courtesy of the wonders of modern technology, I was brought virtually into the living room of Elysa and Nathan’s family. Elysa was moving around a little gingerly, but she and Nathan wore smiles the size of the runway not far from where I sat. Their parents were there with them, and the doctor serving as the mohel was getting his equipment ready. And there, in Elysa’s arms, lay the most beautiful baby I had ever seen (except, of course, for my own kids and grandchildren, and about as beautiful as the other kids at whose ceremonies I had officiated…of course.) Nathan looked a tad nervous under his smile, and Elysa a little tired; their parents were kvelling, and Finn had no idea what was coming.

I’ll admit, I was a little self-conscious. After all, usually when I lead Jewish ceremonies, most of the people in the room are Jews. And when there are a lot of non-Jews, they expect me to do Jewish stuff. But very few people lead religious ceremonies from the United Lounge at Denver International Airport. From the moment I put that kippah on my head, I realized that this was going to be a little unusual. I didn’t want to stick out, to draw any unnecessary attention.

Plus, of all the events for me to do sitting there in that semi-crowded room, this one was going to be a bris! It involved…private parts. People might think it was weird, if not barbaric. A wedding or an anniversary blessing would have been so much easier.

And then, of course, there was the fear of antisemitism. There isn’t nearly as much of it these days as there used to be, but still, even now, for our people, that concern always lurks just under the surface, if not higher. I try to preach Jewish self-assurance and pride, but I have to admit that I did experience a tad of trepidation as I sat there that day.

But I couldn’t afford to let those concerns paralyze me, of course – I had a bris to do.

“Hello!” I said, “and mazel tov.”

“Thank you, Rabbi,” said someone from the other end. “We’re so glad you’re here.”

I waited for the doctor to give me the nod, and I began the ceremony. “Welcome, everyone, to one of the most time-honored and sacred rituals in Jewish life.” I found it difficult, because, on the one hand, I had to speak loudly enough for the group on the other side of the screen to hear me, but on the other, I didn’t want to be so loud as to bother the people around me or make a scene. After all, Jim, Hank, Vern, and all the others in the lounge that day were working on their own computers and had their own stuff to do.

I leaned in toward my screen, trying to turn my personal volume dial up to that sweet spot right between audible and obnoxious. “Today, we’re going to welcome this beautiful baby boy into Jewish life, and everyone except one of us is going to celebrate the event.” I didn’t look around for confirmation, but it seemed to me that I had hit the sweet spot on my volume dial. Finn and his family could hear me, and none of my neighbors in the airport lounge seemed to be complaining. I continued with the ceremony. I told a story about how our children are the guarantors of the Jewish future. I said, “Zachar l’olam brito…God remembers the covenant forever, the word commanded to a thousand generations….” I nodded back to the mohel through the screen, and he performed the circumcision as I tried to send comforting vibes to Elysa and Nathan over through the airport WiFi. After the procedure, I said, “Let this child be known among the people Israel by the name, Aharon ben Esther v’Natan.” I said a Mi Shebeirach, praying for his wellbeing and his mother’s healing, I called on Nathan and Elysa, who explained that Aharon was the name of Finn’s great-grandfather – a kind and generous man whose good qualities they prayed would be perpetuated by their son who now bore his name.

We said Kiddush, I recited the priestly benediction, and then led the whole family in a rousing chorus of Siman tov umazal tov, umazal tov usiman tov…. “What an honor it was to participate with you today,” I said. “Thank you, and mazal tov again. Goodbye…goodbye.” I waved into my screen, and they all smiled and waved back.

I sighed a breath of satisfaction, closed the screen of my laptop, and sat back in my seat. Phew!

Then, I looked around, and saw three large pairs of eyes staring at me from just as many sides. It was Jim, Hank, and Vern. They didn’t say anything at first, they just stared at me. And for a moment, I stared at them.

Then, almost in unison, the three of them said, “That was beautiful!”

“I’ve never seen anything so moving,” Jim said.

“It brought tears to my eyes,” said Hank.

“Are you a rabbi?” asked Vernon. “I didn’t know they still did ceremonies like that!”

I smiled, nodded my head, and responded, “I hope I wasn’t too loud.”

“No!” they all told me. “We loved it!”

We chatted for a few minutes after that. They each had a couple questions about being Jewish; they told me about some Jewish friends they had in high school; we shook hands; and then we each went back to our own screens and phones.

That was a great day for a lot of reasons. Not only did I get to participate in a wonderful simchah, but I also learned an important lesson from my friends Jim, Hank, and Vern. In this age of conformity, we often find ourselves afraid of sticking out, of being different. And that day I’m sure there might have been people who would have looked askance at what I was doing, thinking it cruel, unusual, or worthy of a scene from Seinfeld, that really wasn’t my experience in the airport. Others might have seen the kippah on my head and broken into antisemitic epithets, but that’s not what happened, either.

In fact, come to think of it, in my experience, I’ve met far more Verns, Hanks, and Jims out there than the other kind of people – far more people who are fascinated and appreciative of my uniqueness and quirkiness – of our uniqueness and quirkiness – than down on it. It wasn’t anything in particular that I did that drew them in, I don’t think, I was just being who I was – proudly and unapologetically, if admittedly with a little bit of trepidation.

Let’s face it. There is a lot of conformity out there, especially at places like airports. Like huge flocks of sheep, people stream from check-in to gate, or gate to baggage-claim, stopping along the way to eat and gaze into their screens. Modern life in general has a homogenizing effect, drawing us like all the other moths around us to the glittering light of the newest gadget or the shiniest car, or our daily destinations.

But that day, with a cup of wine next to my computer, and an ancient-style skullcap on my head, and in words few if anyone else in that room understood, the people around me saw me step out of the current moment and into eternity, in a way they knew my people had done for many centuries, albeit this time through Zoom. They responded, I think, to me being me, regardless of contemporary pressure to be someone else. They appreciated the connection I had with my people and my past, and they found the ritual to be mystifying and enchanting.

When the great Chasidic teacher, Reb Zusya, was on his deathbed, his students came and found him sobbing uncontrollably. They tried to comfort him, saying, “Rabbi, you have no need to fear. You’re as wise as Moses, and as kind as Abraham. Surely, Heaven will judge you positively for that.”

“No, you don’t understand,” Zusya replied. “When I arrive in heaven, I won’t be asked ‘Why weren’t you more like Moses, or why weren’t you more like Abraham.’ Instead, I’ll be asked, ‘Zusya, why weren’t you more like Zusya.’”

“Zusya, why weren’t you more like Zusya.” My friends, this is one of the key questions of our days, just like it was back then. God, you see, doesn’t make many mistakes. God created you the way you are for a reason. Those aspects of you that you’re proud of – at least in part, they are God-given gifts. And those dimensions of you that you are ashamed of, those parts of you that you’d like to hide, maybe they are failings you need to overcome, but they can make you even stronger and better in the long run. Or maybe they’re not failings at all, but just strengths and gifts in disguise. Regardless, God made you the way you are because God needs you to be that way. And when you try to quash your uniqueness, you obscure one of the universe’s most magnificent creations.

So, as we enter this new year, my friends, my message to you is simple. Be yourself. Proudly. Unapologetically. Always try to improve yourself, but in terms of your uniqueness, in terms of your quirkiness, in terms of those things that make you unlike the crowd – be yourself. Be yourself if it’s weird, be yourself if it draws stares, be yourself even if it makes you uncomfortable. It’s important, because the alternative is for you to try being someone else, and you can’t do that very well. It’s important, because, writ large, the alternative is for everyone to try being like everyone else, and if we were all like one another, that would make for a very boring world, and I think that God meant for this world to be exciting. Why would God have bothered creating a boring world? Why would God have bothered creating an undesirable you?

As for me, the next time I’m stuck in the Denver airport, I’m not going to even hesitate to lead a bris over Zoom, assuming that there’s a willing family and a ready foreskin on the other end. Because this heritage of mine, it’s something I’m proud of. It makes me stick out, and that’s a good thing. And I can’t help but think that being me – the proud Jew that I am – is something God would have wanted me to do in the open.

And if each of us can do this, then I have a feeling it will a better, richer, more vibrant world for us all.

Shanah Tovah